The son goes to school empyreal, enuresis – forum of Babytree darling tree teachs illuminative edition
by admin on Sep.18, 2011, under Uncategorized
empyreal, the son did not cry! ! Went receiving a son yesterday afternoon. Classroom door is shutting. I am pushed open the door go in, the teacher is wearing short gown to the son. See I come in, zhuge Laoshi one face feels embarrassed say, trousers of space navigation make water today. I say to do not have a thing, forget to say with the teacher? Carry is amounted to hey hey laughed, pants saying make water I, mom. I say to do not have a thing, must remember saying with the teacher later. Zhuge Laoshi says, “ he said to me, but I am sticking poster at that time, say to him you wait, I am stuck go with you. The result is stuck see him wait not as good as, clang clang ground is over there make water left. Feel some are helpless in ” my heart. The son provides for oneself in this respect ability still remains at rising, often cannot count on someone teacher. The as usual after saying good-bye with the teacher played in the courtyard slide and skip skip bed. Play, I say to him mom goes with you tonsorial. He does not agree. I say good, wait for mom to drop a car, it is good to take the sport that takes you to play a stride to go together? He is very delighted agreed. Then, was brought to be worn by me village barber shop. I ask him: “ your hair is very long now, or else manage can enrol insect, very can dirty, are you willing? ” he shakes shake one’s head. Do then you let “ does the aunt manage to you tonsorial good ah? In that way won’t insect bites you. ? He promised ”“ hum ” very quickly. I am not at ease, ask “ the aunt gives again when you are tonsorial, do you cry? ”“ does not cry ” the word to him, feel very anxious in my heart. Because be sent to Dali as a child, did not cry once only. Also be that to say manage of the or else on his head can have small worm, want to crying, just twitch one’s mouth, did not cry. How to meet this? I am very afraid. Arrived barber shop, carry is amounted to see that aunt is a little nervous. Originally I want to holding him in the arms to come, that aunt sees my dress touchs a hair easily, say my son is old, can oneself are sitting. Then I moved a seat and him to be next to. “ mom and you are next to, are not afraid of. The aunt has managed to you a little while. You look to did not fear, manage rises to resemble is mower mow same: With a buzz buzz. . . . ” son slowly calm, very obedient manage was over hair. This makes me very accident, very glad also. Come out from barber shop the son’s very proud appearance, striding a stride, holding head and me high to go forth together. Ha, a chuckle to oneself in my heart! And also did not seek ground intentionally this do not want to come home, very delighted climb a building to come home together with me. After coming home, oneself open computer to see artful tiger, I cook. A little while his father came back. Listening to have open the door sound, knowing is his father comes back, sit over, the buttock is twisted, but did not come down from beginning to end. His father comes over actively to ask he wishs to not be willing to issue a building to play together. (was said by me from wherefrom day, return some revolution awareness fortunately! ) wanted to agree eventually. Father and son left a floor together. Play come back to eat a meal, arrived to sleep to midnight in the evening, have to should drink powdered milk, wait not as good as. Good that drinks a bottle. But spent a few hours very quickly,woke to begin to want to drink again. I some feel puzzled: The teacher said to eat in the school many ah, a steamed stuffed bun, a bowl of congee, came back to eat bowel of a ham again in the evening, half bowls of rice, a packet of milk, a bit green vegetables. Should full also ah. This child! Do not have method to be unable to dissuade him, give again rushed! Such drinking be over slept again. Arrived to wake 5:30 this morning, I look: Enuresis! Whose make water do I ask him? What he feels embarrassed is tricky: Of my make water! Drink powdered milk even then. I am afraid of delay breakfast, said to be not drunk. Then cry greatly. Good, drink half bottles again. Drink succeed add to sleep. Arrived seven a little bit, I am cleaning a toilet, hear he cries: Mom my enuresis. I think returning is midnight make water that, with respect to “ oh of ” agreed. He still cries, . I come over to look, his move a place, me here make water together! Alas, how this child does? ! From passed year do not have make water to cross a bed, this but good, one connecting make water two! Hey, drink in the evening quite much milk powder! ! Estimation is to feel embarrassed, son forward I often “ mom, mom holds me in the arms, greatly hug ” (since looked " the kiss that gives father " this draw this, the son asks to embrace ” to breath out with ” constantly, estimation was to learn this word, very proud! ) very successful get up, clad, wear a shoe, rinse. Change shoe to the doorway next, want to go out. The son stops suddenly, very earnest say to me: “ mom. . . ” am I very optional promised “ hum? He is pointing to ”“ mom ” the frog head on the Wei Yi on the body says, “ small frog, learn a picture. Picture watermelon, picture horn. Draw a flower, give mother. . . I halted ” , stay there. Ha, one big early, the son sends my “ surprise ” , not be “ enuresis ” only so! ! The son was brought up really! Feel for an instant one by one, all before paying is worthiness! True! Go to school the son on the road also grunts no longer, very obedient go with me nursery school. After arriving, still also be very good. After just seeing a teacher, the likelihood still feels not be willing to part with or use leaves me, a little some are loath. After the teacher holds the past in the arms, twitch one’s mouth, did not cry fortunately. There is some of ache slightly in my heart, but still replace a son glad: He was brought up really. . .
Very touching. . Rearing the child is not easy really. Heart of parents of pitiful the world. . Wish the original poster forever happy
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Letting go also is the inchoate education of love! – forum of Babytree darling tree teachs illuminative edition
by admin on Sep.07, 2011, under Buy Baby Toys
(the small honest that begins to run freely pures) be in early there is this character in brain, how should be written? I am a little hesitant, I am a person that not seek fame and wealth is like water, come one many year when mom, because,also encounter a lot of people Yo the idea is different, you come of the talking around of my go toing contend for, my what look soul-stirring, those who be is the child good, but parents do however with Wu Lin plenary meeting is general, must be in numerous Yo factional in cent gives accident, the stance that disputes relative superiority or inferiority is pulled open, of the injury not be amiable occasionally, however oneself heart ······? (the Chun Chun that gains freedom is such happy and contented) (crouch next stations to remove exceeding freely) a few sunset have the job to look after children in the home recently, always be criticized, say I am not serious, do not look after children well, still say I look after children so, let the child get hurt sooner or later. The person that reminds me is in the majority with the old person, often also make me very awkward, actually, I do not have absquatulate, my very serious be inning looks at the child, just, when I look after children, more it is to give him freedom, my comply with the feeling of own heart, I feel to should give the child the chance that take exercise, and I, what should do is —— let go! ? (be brought up happily the small Chun Chun of mouth) look? He crouchs to stand again, run run stop, perhaps circle buccal obstacle, have bit of faltering look, shake leisurely of shake from side to side, see the station is on edge of driveway serrate edge, I also follow tension, but I live without the block of half step, because I discover, he has observation, when his some centre of gravity are flabby, occasionally meeting choice crouchs, the appearance of obstacle of his steer clear of is more and more skilled also, he runs trip, but he did not cry, just ah ah call me, call my uprear him, he stands in the place that has steps leading up to a house to be able to try actually, if be no good, he can appeal to me, won’t rushed step down, I know this is the result that practices summary to him himself, chun Chun can have walked, I often let go allow to go by him, is he exceedingly happy also with joy? , go from what he leaves off me can say to now progress is flying, although still stagger a bit when run, fell still not quite him meeting climbs beyond, I feel he has been a completely free little baby really! ! Those small backs in my card machine often let me be touched especially! ? (the small back that lets me touch) ? ? ? (the appearance of turn one’s head is particularly serious and dedicated) see when me all round when big boy still won’t walk or be being Youred Excellency to be protected overly almost with him, I or the honest that are I and me pure and feel proud, beside me, what the youth looks after children is very few, basic it is the old person looks after children, I had looked most exaggerated is, a little girl 2 years old half, her grandfather still is in with cord fasten her alar, say to be afraid of trip, of protection too exaggerative also! Still listen to a grandma to say even, what still do not meet is good, can go to run everywhere a few more troublesome, won’t go it is much better in small go-cart to sit, my what such word listens fast faints, disregard those who reach the child completely to experience, this also is Chinese Yo characteristic! (does the small honest that sees step is trying slowly pure) ? Take Chun Chun to play this afternoon, encounter smaller than us boy of two days, father mother is being taken, his mom says, the child fell a few times, dare not let him go now! That boy looks at Chun Chun to run to run particularly happy ah also should come down, the result was checked by his mom, say to be able to tumble! Waited for darling to be able to go to come down again! I say at that time, you should give him the chance that take exercise more, those who go is much, met very quickly! But the family did not want to accept immediately, I say then, you see the child think more, actually so great child just in time enters toddle quick feeling period, you help him practice more, captured this sensitive period what the child progresses is very fast, missed regrettablly, that such mom just the child hold in the arms on go-cart as a child come down, pulling the child to go, I discover the child as a child after go-cart comes down especially other and happy! ? ? To the child we should learn to let go, let go timelily, it is a kind of love! More one kind true teach early! Each key period in child development (sensitive period) , guide him, give him sufficient freedom and attention, help his conquer difficulty, welcome every time victory, either more make a person excited! (Chun Chun’s excited galley proof! Now all sorts of teach a class early be current, inchoate affection business is developed, move tube-shaped part trains, music teachs early, literacy shows clip, all sorts of toys also are hitting the banner that teachs early to emerge in endlessly, but is what so small child needs truly early what is teaching? I feel is not these various courses, also not be the sort of the toy teachs early in what the home plays, the growth the child is 3 years old ago, nature has been arranged, every phase has sensitive period, those who hold the child is sensitive period, help child overshoots smoothly, the child is healthy, contented! And healthy, the child with inner contented joy, sure it is a clever baby! (discover a small hole, dedicated research, breathe out ah) I believe each mom is love child, be willing to get on the world everything gives the child best! Regarding adult as us is the so darling like loving these floret bud, they are in that way lovely, sending out all over the flavour with euqally aromatic flower, let what we cannot help go fondly they, favorite they, but love also must have degree. We know, eagle can abandon young bird from cliff, it is to let eaglet learn to fly, accipitral mom looks is what kind absolutely affection, the life that uses eaglet is making bet, but her this is real love, because only flights, accipitral darling just can learn existent skill between cliff, ability strikes truly vast sky, do not be afraid of harships, ability angle prey, obtain food! ? ? ? (run quickly happily to me, this piece is to running, but already very firm) learn to let go, just be the true child that loves us, esteem child, give the child freedom, just be best teach early! ! These outstanding Yo that pass into from the west idea, be worth us to these 80 stepmother Mom are drawn lessons from and learn really, allow when to be awaited, parents is the child allow teacher, the love that you give the child and freedom are more, the love that I believe to child redound gives us also can be jumped over much, in the child that love and is brought up in free environment, also can bring to us more surprises and touch!
Your educational concept is very good. A kind of love is only ultimate goal on the world is for depart, that is parental two pairs female love, children can break away from parental bosom earlier, oneself are independent, you this parents is more successful.
I am I bring a child, my son from what learn to begin him to tumble I never hold him in the arms on foot, often be said by those grandfather grandmas in the village of course; Take him to go out to play to want security only I am looked at aside let him play to the top of one’s bent enough, of course the hand became dirty can come home wash, the clothes became dirty also can change, want a child to play racily only! 10 half moon do not take my home go-cart, to now that go-cart should furnish 18 months all the time.
Sympathize. My home also is such, I often let Chen him Chen go, and I just look at him on the edge. And his grandfather grandma, just always begin to be done not have in him when, one face is intense, protect be over there, hold him in the arms when he should play. Hand him the thing that old people thinks he cannot play again when he cries. If cannot play to him,I feel, cry to also do not give, if just played to meet, can dirty stuff, work do not play to him. Look in them I am an irresponsible mom. Alas.
[a collection of selected specimens of children education method] in updating… – forum of Babytree darling tree teachs illuminative edition
by admin on Sep.04, 2011, under Uncategorized
Start work the tactile sensitivity of finger of beneficial wisdom law is highest, administer the nerve center of finger is in area of pallium function area is the widest. If the hand points to often activity, can promote cerebrum growth not only, and the thinking ability that can enhance cerebrum, should let him cheeper start work conciously consequently do some of business, if wash a face to wash one’s hands, take food with spoon or chopstick etc; Let some more largish child learn to pat rubber ball, paper-cut, fold paper to wait; Let school age him children cut pencil, trim nail, sweep the floor, irrigate a flower to wait. Such meetings make children cleverer. Children distinguishs right from wrong parent of capacity culture method should notice to develop the ability that the child distinguishs right from wrong, connection is actual, seize all opportunities, like neighbors relatives and friends, the conduce between the child’s child is studied happily, assiduously artificially, the outstanding achievement such as not pocket the money one picks up, or thief is little feel, excessive drinking gamble, name-calling fights wait for Dou Keqi of undesirable travel dimension to send the child to express an opinion:
Darling the early lesson of 8 months is experienced (on) – forum of Babytree darling tree teachs illuminative edition
by admin on Sep.02, 2011, under Uncategorized
(practice of Baby early lesson is mixed to the development of darling close child hand in a department to having whacker to help. I collected the early lesson practice of a few pairs of 8 months big Baby and test on the net, parents can be in the home and your darling is experienced. ) development of body and mind 1. Grow the * when 8 months tests little baby of test of self-help of development house home 1 let little baby both hands help baluster up to stand beside small bed, observation whether hold to above 5 seconds, but small chest must not rely on baluster. * checks 2 mammy to take out two Fang Mu one after another, if little baby all can be taken, give again give the 3rd Fang Mu, encourage them to take. Whether is observation little baby can take two Fang Mu in the hand, still those who take the 3rd Fang Mu express, but can not take certainly. * checks 3 mammy to shake first bell, let little baby shake next bell, observe they have without shake the consciousness of the bell. * checks 4 mammy to make the sound of tongue of cough, sip, watch little baby whether imitate these sound. * checks 5 mammy to make the appearance of praise or rebuke to little baby, observe to whether grievance or excited expression are behaved on little face. 2. Delicate act can amount to a levelØIt points to Mu hold a small ball. Put one small ball on the desk, the child can point to with big toe and it hold a small ball. ØTry to take the 3rd Fang Mu. After children takes two Fang Mu, show the 3rd again, the child has what should take the 3rd to express, but do not take certainly. ØOar points to grab. Children can take Fang Mu with Mu, forefinger and middle finger end, there is space between Fang Mu and palm. ØElementary grab shears pattern. The oar side that children uses big toe and inflectional forefinger successfully grabs small bolus. 3. When big campaign can amount to horizontal seat 1) sit 10 minutes alone above. Children sits initiatively on the bed, can two tactics is taking a toy, sit 10 minutes alone above, and sitting position is smooth. 2) forward bend can sit again straight. When children sits alone, stretch his hand freelyingly take a toy, after his body physical ability follows intent pitch, sit again straight. Standing when children is on small bed, in crawl or on the floor when, need not need any helps, can help baluster up to stand, bosom does not need to lean in baluster. 4. Get used to ability¨Hold add angle toy with the hand. With toy tease child, a bit far place should move the toy when he will be taken, he can last angle toy, strive is taken. ¨Shake conciously bell. After setting an example, the child shakes can actively bell. ¨Capture Fang Mu for long. Him children grabs two Fang Mu, 1 minute of above can be grasped in the hand; If be in square wood caboodle, he also is met every hand takes a Fang Mu to stay grasp 1 minute of above. ¨Be attacked with or gather up another Fang Mu. Children can use the Fang Muming in the hand truly stroke or push another Fang Mu. Touch on occasion do not calculate. ¨Notice the small bolus of the teem in bottle. The parent comes to small bolus from the teem in bottle, if children hears the voice that come out, perhaps see small ball, can appear the response that seeks small bolus. ¨Pull a rope to take ring. One annulus is put to leave children a bit far on the desktop; And put the string in a bit close from the child place, desktop of the clap that use annulus causes darling attention, the hand bring into contact with when children when the rope, also can take ring when pulling a string (both be linked together) in one’s hand.
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Newcome mom, send one’s respects to everybody first, refer the question of the nursery school on a darling again! – forum of Babytree darling tree teachs illuminative edition
by admin on Aug.30, 2011, under Uncategorized
My home is near southwest civilian courtyard, it is street of wash and starch here, excuse me mom, the nursery school with better what is had here, darling of second half of the year should come here on nursery school, I and husband are an other place, right here not quite familiar, known mother tells please, thank! E.g. : ? How much is? of Fen of Ai of barren separate
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The Yo that makes darling cleverer method, are 54 buildings newest update ” how do I let darling fall in love with study? ” – forum of Babytree darling tree teachs illuminative edition
by admin on Aug.16, 2011, under Uncategorized
A lot of is defeated Mom has bought a lot of toys and books for darling, but can make toy and books play due truly of action very few however, wasted money already, did not let the child acquire due knowledge again. Before one paragraph is in naughty one is bought on treasure ” wisdom is taught 123 ” , see feeling quite much ……Me what the methodological normal school that plays building blocks graduates, the study when the university is good still, had not given a department in before 10, ha, not be rodomontade ha. After having a daughter, read the book of a lot of preschool education again, resemble ” Mengtesuo benefit ” , ” Kaerweite ” etc, gross does not issue 30, bought N much book. Think to be able to have taught the daughter certainly oneself, but when facing a daughter, always feel ability not equal to one’s ambition, tired! Want to make the child much learn knowledge already, be afraid of the child again tired. Before one paragraph bought to kiss child toy books ” wisdom is taught 123 ” , and when answering the school last summer, my Master adviser teachs a concept to happen to have the same view, aroused me to write the opinion of a bit thing, think a bit Yo oneself experience draws up come and kiss people share. After seeing a teacher at that time, my Yo me bewilderment told a teacher, the teacher tells me: “ child is the child, cannot teach the child according to adult thinking means, according to the child’s nature, clever trying to guide is the handiest also be the most effective method. ” “Professor Bulumu once had said Luo Sen of large pedagogic home: &Lsquo; life is best teaching material, interest is best teacher! ’ , like the child, interested thing tries to use, can become best teaching material. ”“ loves the building blocks that play like the child, if we are redemptive,give the child with respect to everything is just fine, the value of building blocks comes out now without sufficient body. If the parent and child play together, changing pattern plays, the effect is big different. With small building blocks is exemple, if we go attentively care child, go teaching the child with wisdom, the child ability that education comes out is met certainly very tall! ”It is the teacher is with building blocks below exemple, the Yo that tells me secret book, believe to kiss people after looking, regular meeting has very big gains and enlightenment. 1. Let the child close an eye to perhaps cover an eye, feel the building blocks of different figure, guess their appearance, can exercise the child’s touch already so, the space that can rear the child again feels ability and dimensional imagination ability. 2. The parent puts forward to build tower, build the title such as train of the castle, long channel, platoon, make the child free develop imagination, oneself start work build, every are finished same, the parent gives in time complimentary. The observation ability that can develop the child so, start work a lot of ability such as ability, imagination ability, innovation ability, balance ability, the parent is seasonable at the same time complimentary but the self-confident heart that huge promoted the child, develop achievement sense of the child. 3. We still can write upper cover high-rise with white paper, build the model of written characters such as train of the castle, long channel, platoon, a demand is kept on every pieces of paper, have paper conversely ballot, take the pattern that places a correspondence with building blocks to which, promoted child learning interest not only, exercised a variety of ability, still learned know how to read at the same time. 4. Find out a few identical square building blocks (see figure below) , 2, 2, glyph of ” of eduction “ cropland, next above put 1 again, 2, 3, 4 squares building blocks is pressed above, let child observation, speak every kinds of graph to by building blocks of a few squares be formed? Studied the idea of several not only so, and exercised dimensional imagination, developed dimensional inference ability. And these ability are the most important ability in child lifetime. 5. The glyph of ” of cropland of “ of building blocks platoon that returns above face is exemple, we let the child want, above put building blocks of glyph of ” of cropland of a “ again, what figure can you become? What to put building blocks of two cropland glyph to you can turn into appearance again? Can you develop abstract thinking ability of the child again so? 6. Take the form of a door with building blocks, play a car to spend cave game. Take out a few size, form the building blocks of each different, every building blocks is a car, let the child come to the car winkle that can pass cave smoothly, cannot pass also carry come out. Count what can you pass to a few there are? Cannot pass a few are there? The child learned computation, classification, statistic namely, exercised observation ability of the child, analysis ability, judgement ability again. 7. ………………“ anyhow, go attentively care child, go teaching the child with wisdom, the child’s education can become already simple relaxed! The child’s ability can exceed certainly strong! Teach attentively, one grass one wood is very good education tool, otherwise, does to you a national library have again why to use? ”Be, the teacher’s what one says during a conversation, let my suddenly see the light. Through practice of nearly one year, the daughter’s progress is striking, ability exceeds strong. If every mom intention goes care child, go teaching the child with wisdom, with the child that such methodological education come out, ability how the meeting is not tall! Style of writing is bad, close people give advice or comments more ha! Also do not know to kiss people like? The …… in awaiting
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Minister light breaks the wisdom “ of taletelling the story widely known of crock ” , traditional method reads the story to the child to listen namely, let the child feel minister light is very clever, have wisdom very much. If we give the child taletelling so, not as good as what do not tell still. Because such telling, besides letting the child feel minister light is clever, still can erect an one path wall in the child’s heart, let the child feel he is very stupid, contused the child’s proper pride, let the child feel these clever people are surmounted hard, if so, still be inferior to telling this story. If us after the story of ” breaking a crock reads a “ minister light to listen to the child, of make the best use of the circumstances ask the child: Is “ minister light clever? ” child replies for certain: “ is clever. ” discusses together with the child next: &Why can Ldquo; minister light recall so clever way? ” child may not reply to come up, it is the best opportunity that teachs the child at this moment, we can guide the child: “ thinks because of Sima Guangai, love beat one’s brains, just thought up so good idea? ” can help the child build love to think so, the idea that loves beat one’s brains, and the lifetime that this kind of nice thought is used to pair of children has profit greatly. We still can be mixed the child discusses together, have better than Sima Guanggeng method? 1. Pull the person that fall into water first with a stick a surface, call adult to rescue the person that fall into water again; 2. If do not have stick, it is OK to use rope? 3. Do not have stick already, also do not have cord, still have other measure? If the child does not want to give better way, can guide the child to think, is the dress that wears on the body OK? …… if we inspire the child to think so, put the imagination of flying child, think up the method with cleverer more, the child that such education come out can not is wisdom preeminent? Einstein is in ” an account in one’s own words ” in write: “ my without what special talent, just like to search ground of root dig bottom to found out a problem to stop. I do not have ”“ by ‘ light it is the fastest ’ doctrine place confine, if can be mixed,just thought little —— more than Newton light is euqally fast, faster than light perhaps, what kind of picture should be? Below the guiding of this kind of thought, old unremitting ground thinks, the theory of relativity arose. ”Place of Einstein of educational no less than says: “ imagination is more important than knowledge. ” often is to think little more, take one half step more forth, an an an a breathtaking idea, excellent wisdom, new invention, great creation, was born possibly also. Education is to use knowledge to do ladder, drive reflects, put flying mind, the nature that lets the child and body and mind get sufficient play. is not to use knowledge to make container, rise thought and confine of body and mind, let the child turn simple memory into the machine. What we need to foster is a talent, is not flunky. Education goes wisdom model innovation talent, the child’s future just can be full of a hope. The remain invincible in the ability competition in future! The article is picked from ” wisdom is taught 123 ”
Diligent think, every child is OK period of more intelligent the Three Kingdoms, sun Quan sends Cao Cao an elephant, cao Cao is very glad. Elephant carries Xu Chang, cao Cao guides civil and military 100 officials and young son Cao Chong look together. Cao Cao says to everybody: “ elephant is too big really, but have after all multiple? You which method says? ”“ hey! So big guy, how can say! ” chancellery people comment in succession. One says: “ builds the scale with one very large staff to just go only. ”Another says: This wants “ build how old one steelyard! Besides, elephant is vivid, also do not have method to say! I looked to slaughter it, cut place to say. ”His word just said, all people burst out laughing. Everybody says: “ you this method, be extremely stupid really! To weigh weight, slaughtered ground of elephant while still alive, cannot cherish? ”Chancellery people thought a lot of way, each won’ts do, called a person to embarrass really. At this moment, walk out of a child from the crowd, say to Cao Cao: “ father, I have an idea, can weigh elephant. ”Cao Cao looks, it is his most beloved son Cao Chong, laughing to say: “ you are small off year discipline, what way is there? You say, look have a reason. ”Cao Chong said way. Cao Cao listens to applaud again and again, bade the left and right sides prepares to weigh an elephant immediately, be opposite next chancellery people say: “ goes! We look to the side of the river say the elephant goes! ”Numerous chancellery follows Cao Cao comes to the side of the river. There is a large ship in the river, cao Chong calls a person to pull the elephant to the boat, waited for hull to stabilize, in the place of neat surface on shipboard, engraved to. Call a person to pull the elephant to the bank to come up again, greatly small stone, make up together toward the boat together, hull sinks downward with respect to a bit a bit. That way path that waits for hull to sink to a moment ago was engraved and surface are euqally neat, cao Chong calls a person to stop to install stone. Chancellery people open big eye, see here can’ts help praising repeatedly: “ tweak! Tweak! Everybody understands ” now, want to weigh the stone in the boat only, add up weight, know the elephant has multiple. Cao Cao nature is more glad. The eye since his narrow one’s eyes looks at a son, hope cock-a-hoop to visit minister people, seem saying in the heart: You still are inferior to “ this my young son is clever! ”Education comprehends: Taletelling, inspiring the child to ponder over a problem again. Not by story content confine the child’s thought, be in again guide the child to ponder over a problem: 1. Wait for capacity issue. Why the weight that the weight of stone resembles namely? 2. Resolve a problem. Big question is bad to solve, can decompose for a few good settlement little problem is solved. 3. Innovation thinking problem. Ask the child still has better method? If need not stone, is aboard of station of choose and employ persons OK? Does choose and employ persons replace stone what to profit there is? 4. Can we still think up better idea? The education that thinking mode, thinking is used to, far the simple memory of overweight knowledge. If every parent can use bit of idea a little, pay attention to the education that child ability fosters. Pay attention to the education of ability of child innovation thinking, our child can become wisdom is preeminent, and wisdom is the best money that we leave the child, it is the child OK and lifelong enjoyed treasure. The article is picked from ” wisdom is taught 123 ”
How boast darling, the person that lets the child become tall accomplishment this is 3 mom and 3 real stories that child grows. 3 mom are the classmate adds cater-cousin, the unit that differs in a city together works. A day of this city came to a pedagogic home, hold an education seminar. 3 mom make an appointment to attend a seminar together. The thematic “ of the seminar praises — child heart not the motivation of exhaust”Listen to a seminar, 3 mom burn with righteous indignation. Discuss to fine fine home how to rear the child, be determined to say by the expert, had reared the child. Fine fine Mom often praises the child later: “ you are really clever! ”Ripples rippleses Mom also encourages the child constantly: “ you are the cleverest! ”When ice puts Mom on the ice to obtain certain progress in the child however, according to the child’s change, the accord that has specific aim praises, guide. Pick the part of a few lives that takes Mom glacial ice and child now. The Yo that puts Mom on the ice through ice example, we can have a lot of results, want us only attentive observation, patience guiding, set an example with the body, education goes outstanding child, can become already relaxed simple. Weekday, mom glacial ice cleans sanitation in the home, darling of 3 years old took the towel of mom that wash a face to toilet, in the exert to one’s utmost on tea table brushing. When mom sees, snow-white towel has become to brush antependium. Mom glacial ice is very angry, want to had seized towel, paste darling. See serious interest of the child, the hand that mom reachs closed again. The noise side ear rises: “ spank can make a handsome appearance, spank can give up Mom of ice of ice of ” of a kind of moral character became static static heart, go to the side of the child. What is “ darling doing? ”I am helping “ mom brushs a table! ” darling says proudly. “ darling is really good! Can care mom, can help mom work. Mom thanks you. ”Be full of on child face happy with proud. “ darling, let mom see your towel. The towel washing a face that this is mom does not brush a table, the towel that brushs a table is hanging ”“ to brush mom towel so dirtily at the back of backstairs, how does mom wash a face? ”I do not know “ to brush a table with what! ” puts ice on the ice to say. “ mom tells you, do not know to have nothing to do with. Person lifetime can encounter a lot of things that he does not know, we can ask, asked to know. The parent can ask in the home, be in the school to be able to ask a teacher. Ask more, know more. Can do a lot of bad things less. Can do a lot of businesses very well. ”“ you today if ask mother, mom is met happier. ”Each each parent of respect, teacher, the conversation that read ice to put Mom and child on the ice do you have why impressions? The word of Mom glacial ice tells the child ably a few problems, guide the child to right way. Be alluded at the same time and developed good habit of the child? We see ice put two words of Mom on the ice: “ darling is really good! Can care mom, can help mom work. Mom thanks you. ”Look be like to be praised simply, can stay in the depth of the child’s heart actually such deep brand: 1. Oneself behavior got admit and be encouragemented. 2. Care other, it is a favour. 3. Help another person, also be meddlesome. 4. Mom’s acknowledgment, make oneself very cheerful. Experience the joy that helps a person. “ mom tells you, do not know to have nothing to do with. Person lifetime can encounter a lot of things that he does not know, we can ask, asked to know. The parent can ask in the home, be in the school to be able to ask a teacher. Ask more, know more. Can do a lot of bad things less. Can do a lot of businesses very well. ”“ you today if ask mother, mom is met happier. ”5. Guide the child diligent learn from good examples ask, diligent learn from good examples asking is the child the fountainhead of lifelong derive knowledge. Cheeper period is good according to the child asking characteristic, make the best use of the circumstances tries to encourage. Enter junior high school, high school when the child, a lot of course parents already cannot coach, good asking dominant position is shown. If the child is bad to ask, the problem in study is inextricability. The child’s achievement can drop quickly. Affect the child’s lifetime directly. Education is diligent learn asking habit, the decision the child attends in intellectual road, can go much further, can ascend much taller. “ slips into night along with wind, benefit other people is fine breathed. ” parent in a way uses mug-up, inspire patiently, guide, the child can grow in correct directional health! The psychology of exert a subtle influence on is alluded, the child is more recipient, be close friends than simple homiletic effect before last hundredfold! The article is picked from ” wisdom is taught 123 ”
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Nurturance good convention, darling is benefited all one’s life Zhou Yi, mom glacial ice receives glacial ice from nursery school come home. Into the ice after the door ice is pressing a habit to wash his hands first, wash a hand to prepare feigned course of study. Mom asks ice: “ what is today’s exercise? ”Glacial ice says: “ reads 3 English words 10 times. ” puts ice on the ice to take out a book, a word won’t be read, go asking mother. Mom glacial ice says: “ me also won’t. ”“ I call ask an elder sister. ” puts ice on the ice to say. “ is no good! ” ice puts mom on the ice to say, “ ice, had we talked? When attending class today, did this word teacher teach? ”“ taught. ” puts ice on the ice to reply in a low voice. “ you say with mom, you why won’t? Do we search together seek an account? ”When Mr. “ lecture, I and classmate play below, did not listen. ”Is “ done so be opposite? ”“ is incorrect. ” puts ice on the ice to say. You can tell “ mother is real reason, mom is very glad. You are a honest child. You had known your error, mom does not criticize you today, but, today’s cartoon cannot look. ”“ why ah! ” puts glacial pole on the ice not heart Gandhi says. “ ice, what we agree is, finish everyday after exercise, see cartoon again. You work to was not finished today, cannot see cartoon of course. Should you assume responsibility for your behavior? ”Does “ assume responsibility? ” ice ice indissolubles the ground asks. “ today, you attend class to did not listen well, exercise cannot be finished, yourself causes? Cannot see cartoon, it is you the responsibility that the mistake assumes pair today. ” ice puts mom on the ice to explain. “ mom cooks, oneself think way, today won’t word, how should do? Mom believes you can recall the way that settle certainly. ”Glacial ice cannot see cartoon, very afflictive, sit on sofa downhearted. Finally is dull really, the toy that takes out oneself is moving back and forth downheartedly. This paragraph lays lively part, happen on our body, how can we say, how to do? Is mom glacial ice done so what effect can you have? Education comprehends: Game needs regulation, be an upright person need principle. Random quadrature cannot become circumference, do not have regulation namely without cost, unprincipled good-tempered it is indulgent, let the child assume responsibility for his behavior, it is a kind of first-rate education method. After the child forms a habit, before working, can think, I make meeting generation so what is sequential, oneself hope this kind of consequence. If be, go doing. If not be, do not do. The child’s reflection ability of standard of behavior of heart of sanction of force, eye, foresight, ego, responsibility, ego, can get promoting greatly. What won’t form the child is capricious, obstinate, unreasonable. The child is met little take a beating, endure criticism less, foster the mentation of child health. The parent, teacher is met to educational process of the child become relaxed, effective. The article is picked from ” wisdom is taught 123 ”
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Diligent learn from good examples ask, good asking is more important than learning a likelihood frequently! Zhou Er, mom glacial ice receives Wan Bingbing, ice puts on the ice to say gladly to mom on the road: “ mom, yesterday that English word, I knew how to be read. ”How do you learn “ ? ” ice puts mom on the ice to ask. I ask “ the teacher today! ” puts ice on the ice to say extremely proudly. “ ice puts dishy on the ice! Encounter him problem to be able to think method was solved. Won’t the problem knows to ask a teacher, glacial ice is done really well! Mom of ” ice ice is gratified the ground says. Return the home, glacial ice washs a hand, take out work. “ mom, today’s exercise is 1, 2, 3 each write group. I compose ”“ first course of study, I also do not want not to see cartoon again. ”“ does not see cartoon true anguish! Attend class I also did not play with the classmate again! ” puts ice on the ice to complement again. See the change that puts ice on the ice, mom feels very gratified, diligent learn from good examples ask, good asking is more more important than learning frequently. A lot of parents have such feeling, achievement of child elementary school is very outstanding, drop point-blank to achievement of phase of junior high school, high school, especially parent of great majority of course of present junior high school, high school is essential cannot oneself coach, good asking dominant position is shown adequately, good asking good convention can let the child learn from the problem is solved over there the teacher, as a child nurturance is good asking good convention must be caused take seriously. Also realize deeply at the same time, also want to notice oneself behavior, language before the child, after all teach by word of mouth of overweight of teaching by one’s own example. With the thing that the child agrees, must abide by. Not easily to child acceptance, acceptance hind must be accomplished. Ask the child is accomplished, oneself want to accomplish above all. Such ability establish good figure before the child. Lose faith before the child otherwise, lose conviction. Lose trustful education, it is unsuccessful education certainly. The article is picked from ” wisdom teachs 123 ”
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How does the child do egoistically? Zhou San, mom glacial ice receives ice to nursery school, the mom of fine fine and fine fine is encountered in the supermarket. Fine fine is crying, be troubled by want mom to buy ice cream to oneself. Fine fine mom looks at sensible ice, treat blubber fine, shaking helplessly first. See mom glacial ice goes to the side of fine fine only, crouch a private parts, to fine fine say: “ beautiful, why to cry? Fine fine is a sensible child, you can tell a nurse, why to cry? ”I should eat “ ice cream! Mom is not bought to me! ” fine fine shouts aloud. “ Oh, be such ah. ” ice puts mom on the ice to say, “ beautiful, do not cry first. The aunt knows fine fine is a reasonable good child. Aunt and you say to talk, do we decide to buy again do not buy ice cream? ”Fine fine subdues a place to nod. “ fine fine is a sensible child, know a lot of problems. You can tell a nurse, when falling ill afflictive? ”“ is afflictive. ”Mom glacial ice asks calmingly again: Does “ give or take an injection, take medicine is Shu Bushu taken? ”“ is uncomfortable! ” fine fine answers. Doesn’t happy event of “ fine fine like to take medicine, give or take an injection? ”“ does not like. ”“ is right, fine fine is really sensible. Weather is so cold today, eat ice cream to fall ill easily. After falling ill already afflictive, give or take an injection again, take medicine. Fine fine is a clever child, when knowing to be cold, eat ice cream to fall ill easily, regular meeting knows to should buy ice cream today. ” looks at gradually quiet beautiful, mom glacial ice is opposite again fine fine say: “ fine fine is really sensible! The aunt loves sensible child. Go, play to aunt home He Bingbing”Reached glacial ice home, two children play a toy in the sitting room. Fine fine mom asks ice ice to mom: &Is Ldquo; ice ice had capricious, obstinate, unreasonable when? Mom of ” ice ice calls fine fine mom the study: &A lot of Ldquo; children have this process, glacial ice also has had. The key is first time, the parent is handled well, after the child no longer such. If processing is bad, can cause the child capricious, obstinate, unreasonable. ”“ if you tell a truth with her today, she still cries, still be troubled by, how to do? Mom of ” fine fine asks. “ tells the truth above all clear, it is the attitude that sees adult and determination next. If she still is troubled by, I can tell her, aunt and mom like sensible, reasonable good child, if not reasonable, I and mom got angry. We go, yourself cries here, cry at the same time, at the same time oneself think, such doing right incorrect. When to want to understand, know oneself are wrong, come out to look for us again. If be to be in the home, can let her cry to toilet or balcony, the error that realizes oneself till her comes out again. Let the child know, on principle problem, without the leeway that discuss. Had had a few such processes, the child can know, willfully make a trouble is to cannot achieve a goal. Child nature can tell a truth, defend regulation. But the parent also should note two problems, it is, was opposite when the child, the parent is poor, want to be brave in to apologize to the child. 2 be, face undesirable convention of the child, the parent’s opinion must agree. Cannot father canal, mom is protected; Or parental canal, father grandma is protected. Such children cannot be judged dispute, right wrong, education loses action. There are pair of faults only before the truth, without size. Equal ability is communicated, communicate be convinced letting a person. Such, child both neither needs to scold, do not need to hit more! The parent can rise easily gradually to the child’s education, the child also is built to the parent’s reliance, esteem. ”Feeling is quite deep if fine fine mom listens to ice to put mom on the ice, plaint: The educational method that “ looks is us has a problem, not be the child has a problem. I am not quite attentive, not quite patient also. Later time communicates ”“ time with you more even not early, should come home cooked ”“ good-bye, old schoolmate! ”Without bad child, have bad method only! The article is picked from ” wisdom teachs 123 ”
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How does boast give outstanding baby? Zhou Si, mom glacial ice opens computer to the office, see ripples rippleses mom’s head portrait is being blinked. After the dot leaves, ripples rippleses mom asks ice puts mom on the ice: “ has bit of thing I want to communicate with you. The chatting record of ripples ripples mom and glacial ice mom is below ” . Ripples ripples mom 09: 06: 32 hello, last after we listened to the lecture of educational expert, I teach ripples with encouragement method all the time. Through so long time, I discover ripples ripples does not have progress not only, instead more and more not self-confident, free-standing self-improvement respect also does not have a bit improvement, I was about to die urgently! Mom glacial ice 09: 08: 10 fasten urgent, you say first, how do you encourage the child? Ripples ripples mom 09: 09: 41 I often encourage her, say she is the cleverest child. Mom glacial ice 09: 11: 08 you are likely means has bit of problem. Ripples ripples mom 09: 13: Ice of 21 your home ice teach so well, hope you can give directions. I am about to lose confidence to oneself, I am an unqualified mom. Mom glacial ice 09: 14: 56 fasten urgent, it is the method has bit of problem only, make a bit adjust, all metropolises change. Notice a method now, everything is not late. Ripples ripples mom 09: 16: 09 how should I do now? Mom glacial ice 09: 17: 42 a few questions can I ask you first? Ripples ripples mom 09: 18: 26 OK of course. Mom glacial ice 09: 24: 11 for instance: Ripples ripples has cleared away his toy today, how can you say to her? Ripples ripples mom 09: 26: 35 my meetings say to her, ripples ripples is the cleverest child, can clear away oneself toy. Mom glacial ice 09: 29: 48 if ripples rippleses he wears the dress today, how can you say? Ripples ripples mom 09: 32: 06 ripples ripples is the cleverest, him meeting wears the dress. Mom glacial ice 09: 34: 01 I know the problem goes probably where be, I think, manage feeling to communicate with you again. Mom glacial ice 09: 46: 43 clear away a toy with respect to him ripples that take ripples this thing is exemple, encourage the child to be able to have a variety of views. If we say to the child only: “Ripples ripples is the cleverest child, him meeting clears away a toy. ” child can feel he can clear away a toy only. If change a view: &Dishy of Ldquo; ripples ripples! Can clear away oneself toy! Mom is very glad, the toy is put very trimly, become more beautiful in the home. Ripples ripples works really well! Mom is particularly happy today. ” child knows not only, oneself can clear away a toy. And, feel oneself are capable to do the business very well, self-confident heart nature of the child can get promotion. At the same time the child knows, oneself him thing is done, mom and him metropolis are very happy, free-standing self-improvement consciousness of the child can get strengthening. In the course that teachs the child, we observe the child more, a bit that enjoys the child more progresses, give in time specific encouragement and guide. Had not built completely because of dispute idea of the child, when encouraging a bit more specific, a bit more meticulous, cognitive level of the child, savvy can get rising, the child knew what to should do, what ought not to do. While the colleague is encouraging the child, help child builds right idea, correct concept, good deed is used to. Tell from psychological angle, when the humor is good, the viewpoint of the most recipient others, and right now impression is the deepest, write down the most easily also prison, get self-identity the most easily. Anyhow, an open-armed and specific encouragement, ten million of be better than sentence empty complimentary. The parent mastered proper encouragement means, praise appropriately language, the child’s education can become very relaxed. A story sends you to look, may have new results. Because 3 clerks praise the language is different, the result is not same also. Be in Shenzhen, 3 clerks talk about brushstroke business to a company, this company scale is not large, the manager is the middleaged person with an a bit unsightly features. The first clerk walks into the manager’s office to say: “ Xu Zong, hello! You grow very beautifully! ”After Xu Zong listens, say to the clerk: &Ldquo; I am very busy today, you go back first, when needing, contact with you again. ”The 2nd clerk goes in to say: “ Xu Zong, hello! Your company is very big, have actual strength very much, the hope can cooperate with you. ”“ you go back first, when need cooperates, contact with you again. After ” Xu Zong listens, unhappy ground says. The 3rd clerk goes in, see the manager has a place not quite happy, busy say to Xu Zong: “ Xu Zong, hello! Thanked you to give me the chance that serves for you. Can serve me to feel very glad for you! My general endeavors to provide satisfactory service for you. ” sees manager mood alleviates somewhat, say again: “ Xu Zong, although your company is not big, but everything of the company is in perfect order however, can experience clearly, the administrative blame of the company often reachs the designated position. You fall in your management, can do very successfully certainly in the future. ”“ you sit down first, introduce your company and product to me. Say of mouth of ” Xu Zong. ……The 3rd clerk accepts next this sheet business successfully later. Ripples ripples mom 10: 03: 46 thanks old schoolmate! I find a bit sense. I think well again. Did not get together very for long, your family comes my home in the morning Saturday. I call to fine fine mom immediately, let them one also comes over, we get together. Mom glacial ice 10: 05: 21 be, period of time did not get together, that sees Saturday! Ripples ripples mom 10: 06: 46 good! See Saturday!
How to foster the good convention Zhou Wu of darling, after ice puts mom on the ice to fall asleep in glacial ice, consider the issue of a week happening, deep feeling is quite much. Walk along a study to take out a book to be read seriously, see the positional ” of story “ tooth brush, feeling is quite much, conveniently is written down some read along with write down. This story and glacial ice mom are below read along with write down, after the parent looks, regular meeting has very big gains. In the positional closet of tooth brush, mom sees the tooth brush of son Braun is thrown outside gargle cup. Mom is very angry, call Braun to the side, say malcontently: “ Braun, how doesn’t your bad habit often change? Look, put tooth brush again outside. I am not right you had said, should be after is tooth brush used, put in the cup? ”Braun is considering an issue, if hearing mom, the absent-mindedly replies: “ knew. ” mom sees the son reacts flatly, he did not cause if knowing to a moment ago said take seriously, cry to him then: &Ldquo; is listening, braun, you must put tooth brush into gargle cup! ”Loathing ground walked into Braun closet, put away tooth brush, face about goes. “ has been written down, also did not forget again later! ” mom emphasizes again. “ knew. ”The following day, after Braun brushs a tooth, tooth brush serious ground is put in the cup, but this takes seriously without what cause a mother. Arrived the 3rd day, tooth brush is thrown to the outside of the cup again. “ is fed, braun, how do, did you forget to go to tooth brush replace again? Say of ground of ” mother life. “ I think you forget. ” cloth bright say. “ how so say? ” mother is visitting a son questioningly. “ because I put tooth brush in the cup yesterday, and you however whats did not say! ”Glacial Mom sees a story, contemplative a long time, write down next below a paragraph of word. In the educational process that puts ice on the ice, be sure to keep in mind: 1. Of the child the process that growing is a continuous study, need parent patience tells the child meticulously, what is correct? What is wrong? Why be opposite? Why wrong? Raise eye of the child’s comprehension, dispute, help child builds right idea, develop good habit. 2. The child is done well, give in time encourage, input greater power to child heart, let the child experience the attention that progresses to him to the parent, appreciation. 3. Discover the child’s progress, seasonable and proper encouragement just can consolidate good convention of the child. 4. A few more attentive, a few more patient, the distance nearby with child heart a few, educational effect is met betterer. 5. With the parents of the heart, patient parents, can rear outstanding child certainly.
Does parental words and deeds have to child influence how old? Henan south an impoverished village, have a special family. Father is illiterate, the mother is a deaf-mute, created an education miracle however: 4 children, doctor of a Tsinghua, master of an answer dawn, two are reading undergraduate course. Go interviewing before a lot of reporters, one dug goes before a lot of pedagogic homes unexpectedly, but did not find the solution. Just discover one’s words of father not to be pooh-poohed, but particularly laborious, attentive, serious, humanness is very very kind, enthusiastic. The mother is very kind-hearted, although be utterly destitute, but housekeeping in the right way. In the home although do not have a pretty utensils, but clear away very trimly, very clean. The teacher summary that has taught the child says: “ 4 children are the biggest the characteristic is: Study is particularly particularly serious, assiduous; Very kind-hearted, like to help a fellow student; Get along very harmoniously with teacher, classmate. ”During children put summer vacation, a of Beijing pedagogic home comes the 2nd times in their home. 4 children and father just worked from the ground come back, all over the body is mud and sweat. Can see from the face of a few children, although work hard,work, but they however very enjoy the pleasure that works together with father. Pedagogic home sees the father and son of pains, cannot bear disturb, after waiting for them to had eaten dinner, the decision comes again. After eating dinner, pedagogic home and 4 children sit together, ask children: Who is the person that you respect “ most? ”Children of ……” of “ father, mother, such-and-such teacher, such-and-such teacher reply. Pedagogic home asks again: Do you obtain “ what is the mainest reason of good achievement? ”The fine quality that I think “ should be father is greater to my influence. ” old says. The willingly bear the burden of hard works of “ mom is the motivation that I overcome difficulty. ” is old 3 say. We had not considered the question that you raise “ seriously really, in us such already impoverished out-of-the-way hill village, can affect us have parents and teacher only. ” second say. Little younger sister thought a little while to say: “ has a lot of people to had asked us similar question, parental words and deeds is best to us education undoubtedly. We say hard also to be clear about with a word. It is so good that you look, I and 3 elder brothers think well today, we will keep the key to you tomorrow. ”The following day pedagogic home sees sibling 4 people, little younger sister is active say: &Ldquo; yesterday, I and 3 brothers talked very long, write down these a few words finally, generalized our sibling the true growing course of 4 people. Although parents is not good at diction character teachs us, but they use action church how are we an upright person, how to work; The teacher solved the difficult problem on study for us. ” is saying, both hands gives on one piece of paper, labour soil preparation is writing above: Parental words and deeds is air, the teacher’s words and deeds is sunshine; Parental moral is a seed, the teacher’s moral is soil; Parental education is drizzle, the teacher’s education is nutrition; Parental appreciation is to encourage, the teacher’s appreciation is award; Parental accredit is motivation, the teacher’s accredit is commend. Thank parents! Thank a teacher! Thank all people that care us!
Attentively a bit, our child is met very outstanding!
The miracle of trustful creation of parents! Have a girl, did not take an examination of attend a college, be in by arrangement the elementary school teach of this village. Because discuss problem of not clear maths, was not banged issue dais by the student to a week. The mother brushs tear for her, comfort say: The thing of “ bellyful, someone must emerge, someone does not emerge, not necessary it is this sad, perhaps the business that fits you more is waiting for you to do. ”Later, she goes out to work along with the associate of this village, unfortunate is, she was banged by the boss again come back. The reason is clipping dress when, hands or feet is too slow, quality also closes nevertheless. The mother says to the daughter: “ hands or feet always has have quickly slow, people had worked a lot of years, and you are studying all the time, got how quickly? ”The daughter should spin weaver too later, do the member that pass market control, had become a treasurer, but without one exception, quit. However, every time the daughter comes back depressedly, the mother always comforts her, never have complain. When 30 years old, daughter the language endowment with oneself, became deaf-mute assistant. Later, she open school of a physical disabilities. Again later, she is in a lot of city open disabled things interlinks inn, own property of a few ten million. One day, before the mother that the daughter of render outstanding service and be famous comes to to old, ask: &Before Ldquo; some year, oneself fail continuously, oneself feel the future is uncertain, why does mom still have hope so to me? ”The mother replies calmingly: “ does not suit kind of wheat together, can plant experimentally bean; Bean grows bad word, can plant melon and fruit; If the word of not good of melon and fruit, the seed that scatters on a few buckwheat also can blossom. Because of a ground, always a seed suits it, also can have a crop that belongs to it eventually. ”Hear maternal word, the daughter wept. She understood, actually, maternal constant is long incessant belief, great mother love, it is a clinging seed, her success, it is this persistent seed grows seminal miracle. Inherent one person, give birth to one person to have the job of one person! The ground creates everythings on earth, build what everythings on earth has everythings on earth to use! A horizontal scroll bearing an inscription: Wonderful each have different education to comprehend: As parents, if our all day long blames the child, this is no good, that bos, be like the child is illness all over, the suggestion in the heart that the child gets is negative, how can the child have self-confident heart? How can have the child done the business? If Ka Erwei is special all the day child of “ of talk about again and again you are inherent it is mental retardation ” , how can have calories of the talent girl later is little Er. If the child does not need our patient education, attentive guiding can grow into useful timber, what do we still need to talk to teach then? Do an intentional father and mother, do a patient father and mother, everyday of every little bit accumulate, our child is met certainly very outstanding! Parent culture level is higher now, take learn English for, teach the child 3 words everyday, accumulate over a long period, 3 years nursery school comes down, is English standard of the child wrong? Need the class outside sending a lot of money to attend class far from, the child already relaxed, developed the good habit that the child learns everyday again, strengthened parentage again at the same time, where is what is there against it? A lot of parents let the child go up easily now this extracurricular class, that extracurricular class, basically be graph save trouble, him graph save worry, the money that send a drop gives others to come to an end the child. Oneself do not wish to assume the educational responsibility that answers, is the example of that successful education is parents persistent pay ability to obtain? Do an attentive father and mother, patient parents, 6 years old before pay much point, let the convention with child good nurturance, good behavior, develop healthy mentality, in the future a few years of children are relaxed, the parent is relaxed. Child joy, the parent is cheerful! If 6 years old before, graph body and mind, make child nurturance undesirable habit and individual character, we will be relaxed a few years, give a lot of care is arduous a few years. Everybody must calculate this debt clear! The article is picked from ” wisdom is taught 123 ”
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Can praise, we can become outstanding educationist! A lot of parents, teacher has seen many Yo now the book of the respect, had accepted the concept that encourages type education, but in teaching a course actually often yield results is not big, why? An education story is below, the feeling after we are read is very good. Use in teaching a course actually, the effect often sells at a discount greatly. We might as well will be read again, see a problem go out where, discuss how to just can achieve ideal result. The story of educationist bell wood (textual with block letter word) Japan’s famous educationist bell wood, can foster 700 every year to be the same as with Mozart age small prodigy of the level, at a draught, he became the person of widely known in Japan. A day, a ground of young maternal leave no stone unturned finds bell wood, say with him: “ you think all children are violinist, and my child had drilled a few years, also do not have progress, if you can have taught him, I took you. ”Bell wood followed that mother to reach her home, that child has 56 years old only. The mother lets the child take the violin, perform a paragraph of wood giving a bell to listen. Little boy looks is bell wood Great Master came, feel nervous in the heart. Zhi Zhi ah ah pulled, do not applaud where to go than frog, still be inferior to at ordinary times level. The mother spun face. Who knows bell wood to resemble discovering the New World-the Americas like, one hugs the child says: &You pull Ldquo; too well, too pleasant, you pull a paragraph to listen to me again. ”The child is excited the Dou Gong that get a face, pulled a paragraph again then, betterer than the first paragraph. The mother looks agape aside. Be pulled, bell wood is applausing is to praise. Until go, the child is enmeshed completely already in the feeling of violin prodigy. When the mother sends bell wood to go, say: &Gentleman of Ldquo; bell wood, I do not understand really, how can you say lie before the child? Obviously my son is pulled so offensively, are you complimentary still he? ”Bell wood replies: You should know “ the child’s heart has gotten hurt, I am treating his anxiety. You have discovery, my first time is complimentary when him, his eye shines, this explains the child got shake, the heart began to transform, the feeling was found. ”Later, bell wood coachs technically this child. Be less than two years, this child conducted solo concert. : of life philosophic theory? Wash of clever Huan of
[have award discussion] do you undertake teaching prematurely to the child, through what means? – forum of Babytree darling tree teachs illuminative edition
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Everyday, we are worn in the bubble in darling tree and cultivate friend people the dribs and drabs that paying close attention to forum together, paying close attention to the topic of all concerned darling, we are in hard do a great father mother. ? Teaching illuminative this one board piece in, we are discussing educational issue of the child especially, in our home, father is an elementary school teacher already a few years, the elder brother is the teacher also has an university fast 10 years, find oneself also is that what, scholarly family breath out (small narcissism) but, in same as parents us (include an elder brother) to now, no matter the educational issue to the child is how take seriously, the train of thought that still can be neither one system goes teaching, do not know how to should begin, of the deep heart that loves possibly cut. So, here, wanting to know everybody is how look upon of this problem, you are how to teach the child, how have illuminative education to the child especially? Say parents is the child’s best teacher, those who a netizen says is good: The child everyday a bit life is best classroom! ? ? Mobile time: 2011/04/11—2011/04/18 participates in means: Direct with post? Mobile award: 1. Wisdom award rewards treasure 3 times to cultivate 30 banana 2. Enthusiastic award rewards treasure 3 times to cultivate 20 banana 3. Share award a certain number of award treasure cultivate 5 banana
I am 80 hind new mother also it doesn’t matter teachs a course, also be to be in bit by bit medium study, of course of ego sex rising also cannot avoid, I also recommend a book for mom, the name calls ‘ good mom to surpass good teacher ’ I read this book twice, the hope also can be taken to you inspire.
Undertake to the child illuminative teach early. I myself am children education graduation, had nephew and nephew early or late, the process middling regular meeting that plays with them says a few children’s song, what does the part act, discover nephew and nephew are in language and imagination respect development are very good, I think is illuminative education is accomplished betterer. Oneself also had the child now, should have illuminative education for certain. I think illuminative education is not bureau be confined to of what format, perk each a bit of the life however.
It is novice mom occasionally, the child is small still now at let a person worry about eat and drink sleep age level, wooden experience. Say 3 years old to see old, 3 years old before after disposition nurturance decides of the child grow, do not get naturally cursorily, pay close attention to very much so. There is a simple idea now, hope and friend of darling make it, eliminate acting channel to perhaps do not want too deep, grow together along with darling later, the perspective that uses him sees a problem, should spend a childhood again. In paying close attention to 锛
Feng Dequan teachs what plan wants early to come in please – forum of Babytree darling tree teachs illuminative edition
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