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Each parent hopes his child can be healthy grow happily, but sudden accident and disease, the family that may let a happiness drops into cereal bottom, build comprehensive medical treatment to guarantee a system for the child, the future that can be the child and family opens a safety net. If the child is born before long, cast for its defend an insurance, when waiting for him to grow up, this piece of guarantee slip is first-rate gift. Arrive from dodder along walking is dovish, the way that the child should take is very long, parents perhaps does not have method to caress the child all one’s life, however can have the aid of is sure to communicate the love that never ceases, help child spends each difficulty peacefully. Parenting, not only should make children healthy grow, should let them get good education more. But more and more expensive education expenses, let a lot of families get tired of however answer, become the obstacle on child growing road even. Because teach the necessity of defray and long-term sex, educational foundation is built to become a of domestic manage money matters serious content in the family. Money business is business of afterwards intelligence quotient, affection later gradually a arisen new vocabulary, say not to let the child be defeated to go up in the scratch line, do not think this word points to study result of the child only. Actually, in current economic society, the child with business of intelligence quotient affection and money tall business, ability wins his wonderful life. And the money business that develops the child as a child, the each pace in the child undertakes the conduct financial transactions of the program is taught having in growing process, it is the necessary choice of new generation parents more. Money business (Financial Intelligence Quotient, logogram becomes FQ) , it is to point to economy capacity, especially yield ability. Without the competence of conduct financial transactions, you have how many money to also can spend light slowly. Alleged “ is rich the money that nevertheless 3 acting ” point to to the scrape up of father work laboriously of business having money comes down namely, in also can defeating the descendants hand in the business that do not have money finally at most. Money business is the capability that a person needs most, also be most by the ability of people neglect. The child often is a pure consumer only in the concept of people, origin no more than of money is the pin money that the parent gives and the money given to children as a lunar New Year gift that when spending the New Year, obtain, amount is not much. But this is not to say the child does not need economy. Bring about not rational consumption of the child possibly without the concept completely to money, overmuch to money attention may make the child loses way again. Unfortunate is, the conduct financial transactions with very easy irresponsible nurturance is used to children, the risk that brings from this is, your child can make a beautiful money not plan sequential person, to moment you will must clear away remaining pieces for them. Accordingly, develop the psychological character with child meticulous patience, establish right fortune idea, the economy with good nurturance is used to, it is very important thing. Method one: Help child establishs correct money to watch

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Be well written, look from A to Z, LZ is a good father, method of a lot of education is worth us to learn.
Those who write is too good, looking is miserable bear, but be in charge of for the child
Those who write is too good really. When seeing the 2nd paragraph of burner especially, I remember my son to learn to stand up in 11 months Shi Gang when taking a step, break boiled water bottle, the thing of crural scald. I cry. I regret. . . .
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Start work the tactile sensitivity of finger of beneficial wisdom law is highest, administer the nerve center of finger is in area of pallium function area is the widest. If the hand points to often activity, can promote cerebrum growth not only, and the thinking ability that can enhance cerebrum, should let him cheeper start work conciously consequently do some of business, if wash a face to wash one’s hands, take food with spoon or chopstick etc; Let some more largish child learn to pat rubber ball, paper-cut, fold paper to wait; Let school age him children cut pencil, trim nail, sweep the floor, irrigate a flower to wait. Such meetings make children cleverer. Children distinguishs right from wrong parent of capacity culture method should notice to develop the ability that the child distinguishs right from wrong, connection is actual, seize all opportunities, like neighbors relatives and friends, the conduce between the child’s child is studied happily, assiduously artificially, the outstanding achievement such as not pocket the money one picks up, or thief is little feel, excessive drinking gamble, name-calling fights wait for Dou Keqi of undesirable travel dimension to send the child to express an opinion:

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It why be taught when art of this age bound is so important to why be taught when art of this age bound? Learn those who proofread the student’s test, mark and intelligence quotient to take seriously have all the time give without decrease, quality education of China cried ten years to still be advanced very hard, print and distribute informed Ministry of Education recently, the decision teachs level school to carry out ” of project of “ sports, artistic 2+1 in countrywide obligation, the education of the sports of class inside and outside that organizes through the school namely, artistic education and activity, let every student learn at least grasp skill of two athletic sports and an artistic strong point. This announcement put forward the necessity that quality teachs and pressing sex again. Although on one hand, researcher and entrepreneur people the value that accepted right head development in recent years, but learn for long with document received, maths and should trying is the course that educational group pays close attention to more all the time. Change to cater to this to plant, a lot of main education fields are big however limits is cut, disappear even, art is taught even if among them one of. Rich far-sighted scholars realize, art has important sense to full-scale development of the student. Because,the child needs to learn skill is: 1 face a challenge, they can put forward to have the means of settlement of imagination, can innovate somewhat in commerce and policy respect at the same time. Today, the innovation ability in pattern of those innovation that can manage Yu Xinxing trade is very be valued. Innovation has been the ability with yearning everybody not just, however one kind is badly in need of and very main mastery of a skill or technique. 2 art foster the child’s creativity. The school nowadays pays attention to the education of basic technical ability morely, this is very important of course, because we must let children like that can from read, basic ability learns in maths and other and main subject. What regret however is, means of this kind of education caused what other subject teachs to be short of however break, especially artistic education and creativity education. Artistic education belongs to few number to be able to make child creation unique, belong to the educational field of the thing of themselves. Visual art does not have pair of bad component, those who advocate is the passion of creation. The process that children create freely can arouse their independent character, enhance their cognitive ability. The article that when them innovation goes to never had appeared before while, the ability of their oneself also is dug ceaselessly. 3 art can exercise right head. Most school education is be aimed at left head ability take exercise. The activity of left head studies a gender, of logic and it is successive. And creation thinking attributes right head activity. The reflection of right head can help a student see the complete picture of the thing, become aware its essence, understand more thorough concern. While child learning uses imagination to the picture is drawn and have artistic creative work, right head ability got taking exercise. I believe “ the person that right head develops has natural advantage in world economy domain. The courses of Abrakadoodle skill education of beautiful Jim is very for instance agile, parents should consider to exercise ability of thinking of right head creativity, can give the child a good start of a race so dot. ” " brand-new thinking " · tastes author red the guest says so. All 4 children are creative. Cannot sing at all without creativity children and move back and forth room, however they need to learn how to dig creativity deep. To the child, can inspire their creativity and they participate in agitate to create the classroom activity in the activity have profit. The child that real conference creates should be the settlement that can put forward idea and creativity with adult train of thought, and use oneself imagination neatly. 5 creativity can teach! Carry more than 50 years of research to creativity, if why handle information and the mastery of a skill or technique that use his,the person that researcher of Abrakadoodle vision art knows “ innovation ” already is, founded the method that the visual art of a system develops creativity, encourage children to hold new think of a way, all-around look upon thing, learn different art to behave gimmick zephyr case, come out oneself new old experience with drawing expression. Parents and teacher can pass gentle guiding the ground ponders over child many sided problem and all-around the creativity that issue of ground look upon will come to foster them. In the meantime, children also can evaluate the capability that will promote his to solve a problem through ego, enhance self-confident heart. Of the development of 6 internationalization and innovation talent in short supply. Having persistent innovation capacity is the talent that current world is badly in need of.

Every answer the work that the teacher takes, I follow the child is spent in beat and scold, how to teach won’t, do not understand, comrades, you are how teach the child ah, I am to do not have method, present nursery school takes so much work, I do not know how to teach the child, how to say, die hard I, day, without giving thought to, his what also won’t, hey, I am to do not have method
The exercise when nursery school I did not worry about, but since go up after elementary school, it is to must take seriously. The first, at first, next static hearts come to the parent, want to have enough patience, cannot teach 9 times, the child still won’t get angry, name-calling, cannot lay a person more, can make the child more confused in that way, need encourages the child. Remember, a good convention needs 3 two months to be fostered slowly.
Thanked, favour, teach baby well
The child is to be hit more scold more do not do more.
Oh thinking to accompany the child to compose itself of course of study is bad habit, the child has those who depend on psychology very much namely, had better be to defend let the child go, the psychology of child of give up distrust. This is the results after I saw good mom surpass good teacher, the proposal also can buy I to read in person.

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Discussing, also want to let darling teach central study early,
See everybody is talking to teach early, I also come collect lively! ! I am Gymboree of a Jin Baobei is early instruct adviser. Teach early to darling people for it is very important, teaching experience and the performance after the darling that teachs experience early is brought up early have difference. Darling needs to foster its in place of every key period the ability of key period, if was missed, that perhaps is short of the appearance that misses development with respect to meeting occurrence lag, very adverse to darling. Although some friends say, it is OK to want the parent to understand to teach knowledge early only, have stated reason really, but the environment that if you have a few only,knowledge teachs early when darling had good-fellowship action and did not develop for darling also is not comprehensive. The parent that we urge us learns actively. ? Look in me, teaching early is to compare cannot little, the key sees your specific operation method, how will guide darling, get the greatest the most appropriate progress. Choose be special key to teach an orgnaization early so. Need waits a respect a moment to make an on-the-spot investigation from persons qualified to teach, course, service, environment. Those who say is too much, ah, I can not be to be in advertise. Hope my speech can help each parent. If want to understand more to be able to increase my QQ number 651412893, I can endeavor to help great master.
Of course the child teachs not early now can be serious fogyism, my child is achieved early art went up, ha.
I learn ahead of schedule, what teach seemingly new east early is pretty good, a lot of elder are heading our unit the child goes that, I had the child to also want to look then
In achieve art on baby the time of half an year, progress is quite rapid still, should go up immediately growing class!
Went up, be in achieve art went up to have half an year, small have progress;
Ah, the child went up to teach early two years old, had had half an year
In achieve art baby the time that attended to have one year, curricular pretty has specific aim!
In achieve art went up to have the time of half an year, go up quickly growing class!
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The mistake that we feel the biggest now feels the child is in namely achieve art those who learn is quite good, push a teacher completely, oneself also very be at ease, one kind be pair of children really so nevertheless is not in charge of, the teacher often says to want to often communicate communication with the child with us, foster parentage, the teacher cannot replace these!
Cite to reply relative to bath red garment: The mistake that we feel the biggest now feels the child is in namely achieve art those who learn is quite good, push a teacher completely, oneself also very be at ease, one kind be pair of children really so nevertheless is not in charge of, the teacher often says to want to often communicate communication with the child with us, foster parentage, the teacher cannot replace these! Be, the thank was shared! Feeling is quite deep still, although darling is in,achieve art progress is good, we also very be at ease! Also should notice later and interacted!
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Baby goes one year old achieve art baby, learned now very long, the effect is very good, sensible oh, him thing that knows oneself was done
Child child still is in now achieve art the course of the first phase, the result is quite right still, if had progressed, next 3 phase still can continue!
In achieve art baby tries listened, the sense is good still, be about to began to attend class next week, the son is quite happy still!
Also want to take darling to go up to teach a course early, but did not go up all the time.
Cite pen container is little amount to child return path: Child child still is in now achieve art the course of the first phase, the result is quite right still, if had progressed, next 3 phase still can continue! ? Had gone up to have half an year, going up now growing class!
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Cite baby of say of sweet silk card still is about one day full 5 months! Appear, baby resembling is brought up between one night! Mom has been written down not her about when Qing Gang is born! Be in so everyday in little change, baby already was blossommed by a puny little life full now bed rolls about, the rascal that turn over what ~ mom faces darling is fast grow, had taught a problem early in what consider darling. ? Teach a Chongzhongzhi that is mom consideration early to choose! But do not know darling is how old however just suit to teach class study early! Listen to the treasure Mom that has early education habit to introduce, the baby that resembles miscarriage age also wants when 8-9 the month just suits to enter study. Course is close more child the contain between teachs Yu Lehe to interact. Close people did little baby undertake teaching the study of the class early? Be how old go? Which a few courses to choose? Is those who had had early teach a center to recommend? ? Share ~ looks the result that everybody has educational baby also was benefited to this many. So do teach a class early small investigation. Does everybody feel where home teachs a center early to had been compared? Place is there?
The child is so small undertaking teaching early to the child, the original poster values the child’s education really.
Close why relief? Is Jin Baobei general? My former plans to still want to let darling go ~
How to say? I want to change a few more, look for to suit darling.
Teach Ban Ting early now much, the distinguishing feature that has each each, also try on prodigy net at that time heard many homes, be in now achieve art the course of the 3rd phase, progress returns pretty pretty good
You find appropriate darling now? Cite Korea0511 replies: How to say? I want to change a few more, look for to suit darling.

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Each people that became mother want to give the child best thing, let the joy that the child crosses, now is the society with an intense competition, letting the child learn more is every parent’s common cause it seems that. As to what to learn, how to learn, can you learn from good examples? This also is the problem that makes the parent anxious, and we are elegant the problem that atelier of Li Yi art was aimed at these letting that the parent is anxious namely, rolled out especially 61 exclusive piano class, be aimed at different student, different study level, different domestic situation will spread out, have cheeper class, little class, adult class, the class that check level is waited a moment, can attend class to also can come to give lessons not only, can go up not only a lecture given to a large number of students is OK also man-to-man education, foundation and the child that do not have a foundation can attend class, education form and artistic course are very much, can let the guardian you are at ease choose for your child. Our persons qualified to teach also is the brilliant student of a school graduate, have old teaching experience and patience. Because this is to be 61 classes designedly, still have numerous privilege and activity, the parent that wishs of purpose can leave a message contact me. Blame sincere not faze

Preface ” good mom surpasses good teacher ” it is the teaching in home that sees inaccessibly originally kind start work formerly, also be my company from ” Yi Ting of Liu of Ha Fo’s girl ” the quality that rolls out mainly teachs books, having wonderful market potential. The author is to teach more than 10 years, read boreal division to teach Master, Ms. Yin Jianli that fostered an outstanding daughter again greatly. Her daughter is jumped over two sub, 16 years old attend the university entrance exam, prep above Tsinghua admits a line 22 minutes, by inside preface one preface the love of the 2 2 quality parents that how raise love is to be like the sea greatly, but have quality difference. Of the discretion that decides quality, not be parental record of formal schooling, income, the position, mix to understanding degree of the child however the processing level to detail. “ gives or take an injection some are fond of ” (1) “ gives or take an injection some are fond of ” (2) “ gives or take an injection some are fond of ” (3) “ gives or take an injection some are fond of ” (4) knead to platelet stool knead painful (1) give Xiao, always feel painful child because of study, encountered incorrect guiding because of him. Want idea and method to change only, can the child’s study become relaxed and cheerful is the child study ability in be being nodded by magic wand strong (1) is the child study ability in be being nodded by magic wand strong (2) is the child study ability in be being nodded by magic wand strong (3) the child study ability in be being nodded by magic wand strong? Do not need to preach, do not need rewards and punishment, all education are in daily life. Character and morals decides a destiny, childhood decides lifetime. The child won’t lie inherently (1) the child won’t lie inherently (2) the child won’t lie inherently (3) the child won’t lie inherently (4) the child won’t lie inherently (5) the study convention with 5 good education is good in education “ in habitual ” process, just developed bad habit. The method is used was opposite, good convention is the thing of success will come when conditions are ripe. Accurate method, actually far do easily simplier than wrong method. “ does not accompany ” ability to develop good habit (1) “ does not accompany ” ability to develop good habit (2) “ does not accompany ” ability to develop good habit (3) “ does not accompany ” ability, do not let you write line of business (1) punish you, do not let you write line of business (2) punish you, do not let you write line of business (3) punish you, do not let you keep operation (4) do not write ” of “ force exercise (1) do not write ” of “ force exercise (2) do not write ” of “ force exercise (3) not. Any plans that change the child, must make from change him parent. The parent teachs the poor ” of the “ a gleam of on the concept, what can let the child’s destiny have ” of “ differ in thousands ways is different. Happy home is guesthouse of 5 stars class (1) happy home is guesthouse of 5 stars class (2) happy home is guesthouse of 5 stars class (3) happy home is guesthouse of 5 stars class (4) set only, all bagatelle are an important matter to the child. Parents has right idea on bagatelle, not misdirect child, helped the child make a major issue namely. The child also meets the temperamental redound parent with becoming a major issue. “ privacy ” of the daughter (1) “ privacy ” of the daughter (2) “ privacy ” of the daughter (3) “ privacy ” of the daughter (4) sleep to not be afraid of the noisy study that do not be afraid of to make a noise (1) sleep to not be afraid of the noisy study that do not be afraid of noisy (2, do not lack by hole person, and ” of hole of a “ is sufficient can break off the some of children is planted endowment, the serious lifetime that can destroy him. If the parent knows that calls “ hole ” , the thing that spends money to buy harm won’t recurrent. The river can be pink (1) the river can be pink (2) the river can be pink (3)
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Good mom surpasses good teacher preface one ” good mom surpasses good teacher ” it is the teaching in home that sees inaccessibly originally kind start work formerly, also be my company from ” Yi Ting of Liu of Ha Fo’s girl ” the quality that rolls out mainly teachs books, having wonderful market potential. The author is to teach more than 10 years, read boreal division to teach Master, Ms. Yin Jianli that fostered an outstanding daughter again greatly. Her daughter is jumped over two sub, 16 years old attend the university entrance exam, prep above Tsinghua admits a line 22 minutes, by inland and Hong Kong two renown school are admitted at the same time. Especially commendable is, the author implemented quality education truly, her daughter not just achievement is good, capability is strong, there is the maturity that surmounts the age on individual character character and morals, be judged to be Beijing 3 good students. The author advanced a lot of education principles that let a person find everything new and fresh in the book: If no matter be best,” is in charge of in “ in one article, the author puts forward: Want to respect children, control, directive to the child or interference is too much, of the child a lot of grow normally order was thrown into confusion, the child can become not know what to do; Newton resembles in “ in one article of same ” , the author puts forward the parent to want “ to must realise from the heart ‘ of children growing need tries by accident ’ . The child the experience from the derive in the life and lesson, oraler than you the truth that tells 100 times is impressive ” ; The child is accompanied to compose trade problem to go up in a lot of parents, the author puts forward: “ does not accompany ” of ability nurturance good convention, the experience that uses oneself tells everybody, accompany the child to write those who work to often cause the child to depend on psychology, the result is just the opposite to what one wished; When we punish halfhearted child to write line of business, the author gave out “ punishs you, the new concept …… that does not let you compose ” of course of study is very much people already the idea of be accustomed to sth, through comparative analysis of the author, when we just discover we are very so much await err. Can say, this book can cause the revolution that a family teachs, change the wrong intention that a lot of families teach. Having extremely strong practical, can draw lessons from well, it is the reference book of parental education child.
Preface 2 especially commendable is, in all sorts of theory kind family education kind books floods the market, this book author changed family education reference books with material taken from various sources and arranged according to subjects with the narrative calligraphy or drawing, language with be full of love the bad to read, impression that looks not to go in, when report reads this book, a lot of readers are read at a heat. Of course, it is the language is in not just absorbing, the acceptance that more important is the educational concept that communicates to the author and admire. As to this book practical, character of two readers feeling cites to be able to show an issue most here: After a of the author old schoolmate read the author’s article, also say: I see the difference between my child and your child only so. Since these articles that read you, just discover this difference is the —— between I and you serves as a mother so, you are a child elaborate education became big, I just raise the child actually big. Most the reader that reads complete book first: I also read a few concerned families to teach the book of the respect previously, but often be disappointed. When reading, feel to say sentence a rational, when putting down a book, feel however what also won’t; Some books just are showing off “ success ” even, let a person read more self-abased more, read more do not know this more how parenthood. Read these your articles, I just know how to when facing the child, should think truly, how to do; My child already went up now junior high school, hate only did not read these articles a few earlier, why do you draw up not some earlier come? !
“ gives or take an injection some are fond of ” (1) the endurance of children is breathtaking actually, want to frightening them only, give out an equal mentality anticipates, they can accept a few issues with appear very difficult likely. Once, I see in hospital corridor 6, little boy of 7 years old rejects to give or take an injection, his father, the old man of tall Martha of a person does not do him really. Father looks also was to use power, want a few times to capture little boy, be flounced off finally. The revolt of that little boy can spell life ” to describe with “ really, small body erupts striking force, cry sad and shrilly call lets a person feel astonish, whole corridor was alarmed. If the mood of a person does not have an extreme, can “ spelled the energy of life ” ? The fear that can imagine little boy arrived what degree, also can imagine give or take an injection ” of this “ bagatelle brings how big psychology torment to the child. The child can encounter many letting in grow they feel difficulty and the responsibility that be fear of, the parent’s duty is to help the child overcome scared psychology, let the child face these issues with active and gentle state of mind, fall anguish to lowest. Say to give or take an injection this thing, want to be encountered a lot of times all one’s life, how to face give or take an injection, also not be a completely negligible bagatelle. What is more,the rather that from this and a few psychology that come, OK still and migratory go up to other thing. Adult must not measure the child with his feeling, think this is very simple, should press the child only, or tricking hit do not have a thing. The parent should teach the child to calm the ground is accepted as far as possible, foster their enduring and painful courage. I remember round round first time giving or take an injection because of falling ill is to be in a year old 8 months, just know bit of thing, can say a few words. What she gets is acute pneumonic, I take her to look to outpatient service first, the doctor gave injection. After taking drug, I tell her to want to take her to give or take an injection. She may be right vaccinate needle is hit to still have impression before a few months, reveal fearing expression. When she hits vaccinate needle, still can talk not quite, ignorant knew the buttock in understanding to be plunged into, some are painful, cried a few times, syringe needle pulls out, I say “ at once well, you see this cup go up to still have a kitten Mi ” . Her attention was attracted by the feline Mi that imprints on the cup, forget the buttock to be plunged into this thing. I say to want to give or take an injection now, that impression that evokes her possibly, when I am holding her in the arms to go to be in buy room entrance, she says suddenly: “ I do not give or take an injection. ”“ gives or take an injection some are fond of ” (2) I stop to say to her: “ darling fell ill now, cough, still have a fever. Did you feel to fall ill comfortable ah? ” round circle says uncomfortable. Does “ that darling want not to want to let disease had hastened? ” round circle answers “ to think ” . She coughs again, small cheek burns those who get Gong Gong. I kiss her cheek to say in person: The medicine that Dr “ opens can make the disease of roundlet circle good, can let darling become comfortable. If do not give or take an injection, ill total it may not be a bad idea not. ”Dot actually the most sensible, adult should state reason correctly to the child only, the child can be understood. She falls ill uncomfortable, also want to let disease had hastened for certain. Round circle was accepted from the truth give or take an injection, but her little heart still fears, does eyeful ask me “ gives or take an injection anxiously do not ache? My smile wears ” to say insipidly: “ , ache a bit, ache not badly nevertheless, sat that day like you taboret throws a fart mound not carefully same. ” round circle listened, anxious somewhat slow down. I ask her then: “ you feel to threw a fart mound that day, it is to ache badly, still little aches? ” round circle answers “ to little is fond of ” . “ , the pain that give or take an injection aches with that about the same, also be to have little. ” I am very candid the ground tells her, say again next: “ throws fart mound roundlet circle does not cry, give or take an injection also not need cries, ? ” round dot nods. But I can see there still are a few apprehensions and insecurity in her heart. Encourage to her again then say: “ mom feels round the circle is very brave, you have a try oneself are brave not. Can keep back do not cry, if cannot help, want to cry to also do not have a thing. My word gave ” her encouragement, let her feel her is brave; Gave her leeway again, let her feel to want to cry to also do not have a thing. I and the expression when she talks are from beginning to end happy relaxed, show giving or take an injection is very simple thing really. Round circle also calm a lot of, her desire is to want to become a hero for certain, believe thoroughly to mom’s word at the same time, because mom never has cheated her, since be “ has little to be fond of ” only, that also never mind is good those who be afraid of. She is very nervous when hitting, stretch tight all over closely, but did not cry. The nurse watchs round circle giving or take an injection in the process so cooperate, praised her. Round circle passes “ experiment ” , feel those who give or take an injection is painful, can keep back really, state of mind becomes very composed from this. It outpatient service looked a few days is not quite good that outpatient service looked a few days, with respect to be in hospital. A ward has 8 children, somes the major circle that compare a circle is big, two arrive 3 years old. The person that wears white unlined long gown every time comes in, no matter be nurse or doctor, just come in to measure temperature or ask a word sometimes, in ward one issue to cry, children in a blue funk, the wolf was entered in just like sheep pen. The circle is only round one person does not cry to be troubled by, she can halt play, want me to holding her in the arms, the move such as ground of one face sadness. Although she also does not like to give or take an injection, but she already was accepted can rationally. She never is moved in disorder in process of give or have an acupuncture treatment, always very cooperate, can get everyday of the nurse praise. Because the child is too small at that time, blood-vessel cannot be found on the arm when making an a bit, can go up in cerebral door only give or have an acupuncture treatment, but the blood-vessel on cerebral door is very fine also, often cannot be plunged into, often must plunge into 3 times two. One day young nurse of a newcome gives a circle round give or have an acupuncture treatment, unexpectedly in succession was plunged into 7 times did not plunge into. Adult is plunged into 7 times by in succession the likelihood is overcome, I and her father are a little intolerable by. Round circle begins to cry, but do not cry greatly, just groan chirp ground cries, the head lets a nurse motionlessly however move back and forth. The 8th be plunged into, adhesive plaster has been stuck, she did not cry immediately. This bub admires really in my heart. I see a few parents in ward, use everyday trick, comminatory, compulsive method lets the child give or take an injection. Pinprick arrives on the body of those children, seem to compare others how many times much more painful like. The parent’s practice not only magnified the child’s anguish, also do not have church child to be faced bravely when encountering difficulty. “ gives or take an injection some are fond of ” (3) the cure of round at that time circle still needs to do a kind of “ the physiotherapy of supersonic pulverization ” , it is the mirage that lets the child breathed a kind to add drug. The method is very simple, it is a face that sparge mouth stands by the child, make her natural breathe ten minutes. When be being done for the first time, the nurse pushs an instrument, we do not know this is a what thing, the demand that just presses a nurse adopts the child rise. The mirage of white that contains flavour of a drug slightly buzzs as machine “ ” start, gush arrives on round round face, she is astonied, twist the face instinctively. The nurse lets me hold firmly the child instantly, do not move. I held firmly round circle at once, the face that strive lets her to gush medicine mouth. Round circle did not know what to produce, lock double eye, struggle hard, want to sheer mirage, begin to cry, I do not let her move as far as possible. The nurse also is being adjusted, where does the face of round circle twist, she follows jet opening where. Round circle struggled a little while to be not earned, cry greatly eventually, begin intense revolt. Just did 5 minutes, she revolts so that do to won’t do, be forced give u. Give or take an injection quite, ” of “ supersonic pulverization should say it doesn’t matter is painful, just breathe a few mirage naturally, have light flavour of a drug, not unpleasant. Because did not shift to an earlier date to do thought work to round circle, in her fine long hair prepares to fall to want her to accept forcibly without psychology, become the issue with round most scared circle so. After this a few days she rejects to do supersonic pulverization all the time, the thing that should see the nurse turns chance of a similar pulverization only comes in, rise with respect to insecurity instantly, far unlike is treated give or take an injection easy in that way and calm. This thing is to Your Excellency to was not done good really, bring fear to the child. Let child susceptive to must wanting a few anguish, adult is due a few principles: It is quiet and calm and at ease, do not show anxiety. If Your Excellency above all one face angst, the child can feel the problem is serious, can frighten them. 2 be do so to why wanting, the language that wants to be able to understand with the child explains to him. Tell the child you fell ill now for instance, need gives or take an injection, give or take an injection can treat a disease. Do not think the child does not understand not to say. 3 it is to what the child wants susceptive anguish is accused according to the facts, it is not beyond the mark also to do not exaggerate as far as possible contractible. When for instance a lot of domestic strip children give or take an injection, for the insecurity of clear up child, say “ is fond of ” not at all, the child is become last time hind, do not agree to be duped the 2nd times again absolutely; They challenge difficult reason and courage to lose bud chance, and be met later distrust Yours Excellency. 4 it is the courage that arouses the child. The endurance of children is breathtaking actually, want to frightening them only, give out an equal mentality anticipates, they can accept a few issues with appear very difficult likely. Also should give them leeway at the same time, the “ that does not let the child be revealed for oneself is not firm ” feels abashed. 5 it is to had been illogical absolutely trick or the means of bribe achieves a goal. Some parents do not inject through “ the police is about to catch your ” , or “ ate this medicine to buy the means such as a ” of remote control car to achieve a goal to you, this is very of flooey. Trick and bribe can solve temporarily problem only, can not alleviate truly the child’s insecurity, return be a hindrance to their moral development. Children should learn reason to face a few difficulty or anguish as a child, it is painful to can alleviate not only, still can protect oneself well. Round circle two years old of half, cry suddenly in the middle of the night one day wake. She breathes difficulty, guttural place seemed what to block, the appearance that looks very painful. I just had seen fitly about children the data of laryngeal oedema, feel round round symptom is very similar. It is very dangerous that the child gets this disease, it is children trunnion fine, 2 it is dot not sensible, more afflictive should cry more, cry more oedema must be jumped over fierce, this may bring about trunnion to jam, cause asphyxial. That is flashy I fear extremely, put mood as far as possible make the same score pair of round circles to say: “ darling does not cry, because,you feel to breathe difficulty now is oedema of your this place. I point to ” the throat that points to her, tell her again, if “ cries if meet swollen fiercer, worse to vented his anger. You are enduring good, do not cry, mom takes you to go to a hospital immediately. ” round circle was understood, did not cry instantly, cooperate me to get dressed. Although she looks sad in that way, however not throat. “ gives or take an injection some are fond of ” (4) her father works outerly at that time, collect does not call a taxi in the evening rather in those days, I beat the door of neighbour, the father that asks young wise man helps, with bicycle belt we go to a hospital. The car of father of young wise man drives rapidly, I am holding a circle in the arms at the back. Her breath is very difficult, but quiet all the time. Go to a paragraph to do not have the place of street lamp, bump into road surface of a tower above the well lid of a lot of, we trip, round circle of this one do sth over and over again is like breath more arduous, but also did not cry, expression is very quiet still. I feel the child is really sensible, also very feel happy she is so sensible. Went to a hospital emergency call, receive treatment very quickly, the circumstance after a few hours ameliorated. The doctor says this child is really good, there is meaning of a bit weepy in whole cure process, dot gets this disease most those who be afraid of is to cry be troubled by. Round circle of this respect good arrange and sensible really provoking be very fond of. The nursery school on the preparation she is 3 years old ago. Check-up wants before entering garden, the child that unified arrangement signs up is in nursery school to reach city one of these day check-up of place of health care of women and children. On the road of check-up, I tell her the likelihood wants exsanguinate laboratory test. She is a little nervous, ask I do not ache. I still tell her some first ache, tell her exsanguinate is mixed next give or take an injection commonly about the same, there is little to ache when be being plunged into namely, when smoking, did not ache. She already had had the experience that give or take an injection a few times, listen to me to say so, also felt relieved quite. When celestial body check have ten children, when exsanguinate, children cry. Already had smoked, smoking, had not smoked, be in wow wow cry greatly. Especially stitch is not plunged into, when need plunges into the 2nd needle, not only the child cries, some adult are anxious also. The nurse of exsanguinate is done irritated, knitting brows, the manner appears bad also. Round circle is leaning on me to waiting quietly, the look that sympathizes with a bit with some curiosity looks at those children. She says to me a “ cries to also be fond of ” euqally suddenly. When I ask she wants to say the child gives or take an injection, cry and crying ache euqally, cry to also cannot reduce ache. She says is. I kiss her small cheek to say in person admiringly, “ roundlet circle says rightly, cry anyway also cannot acetanilide, still be inferior to crying. I did not let ” child acceptance her scarcely cries, I think, she can understand so already very not easy, do not need her any pressure, when arriving she in case cried, also need not disobey a promise for oneself and feel abashed. With her age, crying also is normal. Be turn for round circle, she sits on my leg, extend small arm, although some are nervous, but wait for a nurse to take needle valve quietly, install syringe needle. The nurse discovers this child does not cry, very see her questioningly. Round round likelihood is to want to comfort that nurse, say to her: “ aunt, I do not cry. This lets ” the nurse is very surprizing, did the brows that knits closely all the time spread out “ Oh? Why don’t you cry? ” round circle says “ cries to also be fond of ” euqally. Nurse one also understood, she suspended the action in the hand surprisingly, watch a circle, paused, just say “ , you this girl, be too sensible really! Alas, the aunt had never encountered so sensible child! There is needle valve in ” her hand, when look for blood-vessel, hesitated, put down the needle in the hand to be in charge of, pull open a drawer to find out a new needle tube to say, you are so sensible, aunt more not be willing to part with or use is plunged into painful you, this pinhead is a bit a few finer, painful without those, with respect to remnant this one, use to the most obedient child. She looked for the blood-vessel of round circle, discovery is not quite good search, stand up look for the nurse with an older age, say to round circle this aunt makes sure stitch can be plunged into accurate. As expected. Look, tell the child “ gives or take an injection a little painful ” , church child is easy before difficulty some calmer, can reduce anguish already, can protect oneself again, still can “ gains extra advantage unfairly ” .
Did Yoyo fall ill to have a fever recently take a hospital to see a doctor does requirement difficult to handle show the method that I teach according to good mom tells blood test she aches a bit but can you bear is Yoyo very firm and certain can you cry cry to you also can ache not to cry to also ache cry return? ? ? Bore to baa originally hard a bit be concealed by her immediately Hahaha by want to cry become laugh really ah breathe out this interesting? The endurance of child child is very strong really
Knead to platelet stool knead painful (1) goodness and open-minded follow forever. One can knead painful child to platelet stool, she can have more understanding and love to others, encounter a problem to never slant hold the reason at oneself and interest. Such thinking means, let her be in not only instantly is buoyant, also can make sure she does not eat to have a deficit greatly all one’s life. Often have such case, child play or when walking, not careful knock against arrives on what thing, touch painful, ground cries. The parent to comfort the child, can fool the child at the same time, at the same time ” of the person that intended raise one’s hand makes that “ cause trouble, why does it touch “ blame ” painful the child, make child “ revenge the appearance of ” . Comfort the child to say next, we hit it, its or else dare touch you. The child may meet some comfort at this time, smile through tears, the parent also can feel very satisfactory. This is a kind of bad method, it is a kind of “ avenges behavior ” . It teachs the child to encounter indolence to go quickly blame others, teach him intolerance and retaliation, go against the mental health of children. Adult may think, the table met the child, I am to hit dozen of table nevertheless, the table is not known again painful, what do this have, I did not teach the child to lay a person. Actually, look in the child, everythings on earth is the same as content, careless to conversation and like talking to a person, the manner to a piece of table and the attitude to a person are same. Occasionally, a little girl is absolutely haughty to the feeling of beloved cloth baby color is opposite at her the feeling of brethren elder sister. The child of paper of pure and consistent Zhang Bai, everything at it is brand-new for him, any experience are experience and study here. French ideologist Lu Suozai his famous education book ” love cover ” in when the moral appearance that speaks of a person is formed, think, the person is in of begin one instantly, still be in the perception that place of innocent and pure period accepts namely, produce the lifetime to him graven effect. When the child is little, each trifling matters of everyday life is become possibly accumulate the incident that contains great education content, bagatelle is not had in children education, each bagatelle is ” of “ important matter, it is good for a of the child to can expand habit or bad mistake. The parent feels to this Ying Min, want to use a few hearts, let the ” of bagatelle of a few “ that encounters everyday, the one brick that makes build by laying bricks or stones build mansion of children happiness sentiment one stone. The child in one’s childhood, slight gouge touchs painful work to often can happen, my daughter round circle is same also of course. We on one hand special attention her safety, when on the other hand these things happen, make a fuss of not overly also. As far as possible the expression with relaxed joy is opposite, let her feel this is how common, it is the thing of some gout even. If adult is apt to with respect to one face panic-stricken, not only cannot comfort to the child, still frightening the child, besides flesh painful, mentally also can generate fear. Knead to platelet stool knead painful (2) at the same time we still teach her to be kind to “ adversary ” . If platelet stool is touched painful she, we won’t hit platelet stool absolutely. Kiss her pain spot in person at once, mom’s kiss is allegedly acetanilide the effect is very good, knead to her, comfort her “ immediately indolence, darling did not cry ” . When be being comforted a bit betterly, resemble treating her again same, taking her to be kneaded to platelet stool knead painful, tell platelet stool “ immediately indolence ” . Such doing, not only the contrary that did not let platelet stool stand to her, become ” of “ do harm to her rascal, it is painful to still can partake as the friend, let her realize “ collision ” is bilateral issue, want to show sympathy each other. Round circle goes be being kneaded to platelet stool painful when, what also forgot oneself is painful, the mood is very fast better. Because we often are done so, once I take her outside amuse oneself, she is running, was tied by the ground of insufficient level off, forward trip, two little hands are brushed piece slightly hematic mark, so painful that cry greatly. I kiss her little hand in person at once, blow gently to her, brush to her again brush tear, she did not cry very quickly. When I should pull her to go away, she crouchs a private parts unexpectedly, the ground that gives trip is kneaded knead painful, comfort the ground to say “ immediately indolence ” . In the meantime, if she and child want to play baby of a cloth, produce conflict, we do not beg her sell one’s own things already, also do not incite her loot, draw she and the child’s attention however at once with another thing, like letting her know interesting thing is more than; Perhaps guide she and child to play together, those who experience collaboration is happy. Tell children to say “ for instance we dress up together cloth baby. The hair of cloth baby is random. Come, young wise man gives cloth baby do up one’s hair, graceful graceful looks for a towel to brush a face to cloth baby to toilet, round circle you that bowknot takes the …… on Dai Tou, look, you 3 people dress up cloth baby much more beautifully! ” adult often guides the child so, and him parent also everyday friendly treat the child, think on anything method understands the child, disaccord child fights firm to compare gruff, the child learned to understand another person, learned to dissolve contradiction blandly. Learned “ concessional ” especially. Round circle is known as a child self-effacing, when every time what conflict appears, she always is can concessional. This concession is not timid concede, it is the true magnanimous that a child shows, it is versatility ability. She and child play all along not be on bad terms because of a difference of opinion, always know will solve a problem through “ method ” . Remember be in once nursery school, round circle and a few children queue up to play slide. The platoon always goes up the first times in the child of foremost face the first slips come down, next again the first runs to go up the place of slide, wait for the person from the back to slip come down, when the station arrives at the back of him back, go up together again. May abrupt discovery becomes children this “ the first ” very scene, begin to contend for grab. The child that come down slips to be gone to desperately from the back run by ladder, but drive first to very hard the position, then some children begin to be pushed each other, shout, be troubled by the mood is very unpleasantly. Round circle also thinks the first slips very much, but she won’t be passed vociferant or push others these methods are contended for grab the first. She makes herself little slip, wait beside ladder, wait for other little girl one round this to slip come down to run to ladder by when, arrived naturally with respect to the platoon at the back of her. She uses the means that abandons appropriately, both neither and child conflict, contended for for oneself again the opportunity that discharges foremost face. Knead to platelet stool knead painful (3) of round circle understanding migratory to a lot of respects. She is opposite as a child all things everythings on earth is kind and friendly, I and her father joke she also does not allow the bottom that hits cloth child. After the elementary school on her, concern with the classmate in the class very good also, 3 exceedingly are chosen in the class every time, almost can full is elected. She when ability is 7 years old, the child of my elder brother, 4 years old at that time small firm come I lived in a few months. Round circle always is first-rate to little little brother, never had been troubled by with the little brother at odds. Once, I and she goes buying she and a kind of little brother to like eating cake very much, remnant little, reluctance is enough two people eat. I ask her to be able to let grandmother and little little brother in order to go back eat only, she does not eat this to be no good all right. Round round delighted ground agreed, although she wants to eat very much, but she also can consider a little brother so small, grandmother is old, need to take care of. After coming home, she insists to want to give grandmother and little brother to eat cake certainly, oneself say whats do not eat. Grandmother plaints say this child is really sensible. What round round junior high school reads is an accommodation makes the school, the school sends a fruit everyday. She comes home to say to me, in the begining cent has a place to bad fruit grouchy, but if,consider this bad fruit not deal out her, with respect to meeting deal out another classmate, must has a person to eat it. Think so, glad, no matter be divided to what kind of fruit,pay no attention to later. The ability when she says this word is 10 years old. She can think so, we are very gratified. Goodness and open-minded follow forever, one can knead painful child to platelet stool, she can have more understanding and love to others, encounter a problem to never slant hold the reason at oneself and interest. Such thinking means lets her be in not only instantly is buoyant, also can make sure she does not eat to have a deficit greatly all one’s life. Round circle is not the sort of person that lets a person look to feel to be close to immediately actually, she greets sb can courteously, but won’t greet, won’t say the word of some of speak insincerely more completely to play close relationship, there are behaviors of any act artfully to get what one wants in communication. This lets even a few can have a bit pressure with the person that she interacts the first time or uneasy, feel she is too insipid to the person, not enthusiastic. But only should the opportunity is contacted morely, can discovering that is her simple goodness one with be linked together expression. She is human in her circle relation all the time pretty good, go up when high school, list of 3 exceedingly candidate announces step of school general selection city come out, undertake annual class polls fair anthology. Round circle is one of candidate, in her unwitting circumstance falls, the classmate draws vote to her. The “ skill ” that round circle and person get along does not have skill namely, all behavior just are stemmed from natural, her heart is friendly to others, can let others naturally for a long time feel, also make others comfortable. The class of the place when the high school on her, it is the class of the first experiment of this school, the best of its kind that centered entire school is strange. In fact every classmate in the class is the potential competitor on field of the university entrance exam. In before the university entrance exam two months, when round him circle is reviewed, arranged the English phrase that a few pieces of need carry on the back. She feels this thing is useful, recommend classmates very good, let me help print come out, take copied to the outside. We a portion ground has matched, had ordered with stapler again, she was carried with a bag, take give every classmate in the class. Although be bagatelle, what also can see her character is pure and altruistic. Knead to platelet stool knead painful (4) philosopher Fuluomu thinks, egocentric with loneliness it is synonymous language, and the person is in impossibly the goal that oneself achieve below the circumstance that is without a relation with the outside. The person has the brethren weal and woe with him only relevant, solidarity, ability is gotten contented with happiness. Person love neighbour is not one kind surmounts the phenomenon on the person, however certain and immanent at the person in, and send a thing that come from the spurt in popular feeling, the force that it is him person. Depend on this kind of force, the person makes oneself and world are contacted together, make the world makes his world truly. Laser illuminates an inventor king choosing gentleman says: “ considers oneself and consideration others euqally much, it is good person. ” we also are certain, the parent can teach the child the most important be an upright person skill, do a good person namely. Dr. Li Kaifu that devotes oneself to teenage thought health to teach currently emphasizes “ be the same as manage heart ” particularly, it is namely in human association process, can realize the mood of other and think of a way, the position that understands another person and experience, the angle that stands in other thinks and handle the ability of the problem. The “ that this and Dewey of beautiful state religion Home Yo say sympathizes with heart ” is a concept. Dewey thinks to sympathize with a heart to serve as a kind of good quality, not pure it is a kind of affection; It is a kind of imagination that has accomplishment, make we can think of the mankind’s common thing, revolt those meaningless dissension when the thing —— of people sympathizes with heart ” when “ or “ is the same as these things of manage heart ” to make the one part of one individual nature, he was done not have self-righteous, did not have commanding, did not have be hostile to repellent; Had understanding, had goodness, had open-minded. “ is taught namely the education ” of the style. Teach child “ to be kneaded to platelet painful ” says with its is problem of a skill, be inferior to saying the problem that is an education view or philosophical view. The parent must notice you in all words and deeds accumulate the harmony of contained viewpoint of value is unified, have the thing with unified around only, ability exert a subtle influence on arrives on child body, in stabilizing the heart in them, make the style that they work. If at ordinary times the child is not careful knock against, the parent uses “ very can friendlily to knead the practice of painful ” to handle to platelet stool; But which days of child did not take care to break your beloved vase into pieces, you cannot help be opposite however child be furious; Tell us always at ordinary times to want to understand others to the child, but once the child’s idea and your think of a way is different, with respect to blame child “ not obedient ” , ask the child is obedient forcibly, and the sensory —— that does not go experiencing the child meticulously so your educational behavior is skimble-scamble, you became not to show sympathy actually, content of not open-minded, love surpasses love child, the parent with skimble-scamble viewpoint of value. This is flashy your mood is behaved truely in that way, meet the child leave very deep impression, the child’s viewpoint of value also by you jumble, “ style ” also complete and won’t unified. I had seen the virulent child in a few eyes, they can get angry very easily, make the conduct that atttacks others. Have a mother, she complains in the mouth her son loves to lay a person at the same time, tell the child “ must not hit person ” , at the same time “ of firm firm ground teachs ” a lesson a piece of knock the table of door of her son head; Encounter her son to grab dozen of other little girl, she also is very false canal only, the under cover in the manner is indulgent, the likelihood is to be afraid that the son is in an unfavorable situation; Still amuse the child to play father at ordinary times, it is with this happy. Child of the summation after the nursery school on her son closes not to come, often lay a person, do so that teacher and parents have an opinion. This child heart may want to play with the child very much, but the consciousness that him protection fills everywhere in the process that he is employing, wary what is encroached by others, most circumstance plays with He Xiaopeng friendly be on bad terms because of a difference of opinion end. So he always is very alone. Every time I see this child the look that loneliness is hostile to again, always be full of to his future anxious. I also had seen many “ grow the adult of not big ” , their thinking means basically is ” of “ unilateral creed, the “ manage ” of the world is here, the thing of others and it is OK to experience him without any consideration, oneself thing and mood are the world is the most important however, oneself idea is the world is the most correct; In routine and life, behave selfishness is narrowly everywhere. Bring discomfort to others not only, it is to often give oneself to bring discomfort more. When they are eager to maintaining their interest, a few real interests in life however stealthily prediction of a person’s luck in a given year. Kind-hearted person, just be chafe with the world most diminutive, just become happy person easily; In the not slashing child on state of mind, his place situation after be brought up is spent meeting more freely, human relationship will be more harmonious, can gain more helps and opportunity. When rubbing the way of a kind of thinking that rubs painful ” to become the child to platelet stool when “ , what he gives out everywhere in the life is understanding, kindness and esteem —— and he can obtain from inside the life, also be these.
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Like Newton (1) appreciation child is not only admiring his advantage, more how look upon his defect. You see him always resemble the eye of Newtonian same ” with “ , he is met really more and more like Newton. We often say round round “ resembles Newton same ” , this is not one is praised, criticize however, criticize her to as a result of,be in in daily life need not heart, make all sorts of elementary mistakes. This word comes from a story that round circle has seen in one’s childhood. Say Newton is bent on an experiment, once a friend sees him midday, but do not wait namely, friend and he is joking, the lunch that prepares servant to Newton ate, went next. Wait for Newton to come out from the lab eventually, go mensal by, see the situation after the failure of an undertaking or after social unrest on the desk, the solilo-quize says “ is original I had eaten a meal ” , leave dining table next, get into the lab again. The talent because too infatuation at some thing, often be stupid in the life, do some of laugh making a person or provoking thing, circulate come down to become classical old practice. Thing of this kind of support of the people can appear in real life, can be regarded likely however “ need not heart ” , “ is not clever ” , cause people distain or get angry. This are reflected especially in children education. Great majority child can be bent on some thing in childhood times. Perhaps pondering over the first chickling with whole idea come from where, so that do not listen to make the sound that have a meal to mom again and again; Or it is to play overly to throw, forgot to go up toilet, make water trousers; Read an interesting an album of paintings possibly also, forgot writing job …… 1000 children can have 1000 things that be obsessed with, although these things look in adult, it is how simple or fine long hair is inartistic; Plus children babyish with devoid experience of life, they often can make the issue that a few your people are between tears and smiles, enter a few small disaster even. These small “ that Your Excellency to treat the child with what manner are not ” , this is not a bagatelle, can produce profound effect to the child. Respecting of my a friend her not when unexpectedly literary dream, say a thing. Bellows evaporate steamed bread often is pulled to read a novel at the same time at the same time when her junior high school, the result has a few times look too devotedly, did not notice to see fire, destroyed igneous lane, one discovery beats and scold her father she is one. Went nearly 30 years, she speaks of this thing is very sad still, feel this thing grows to her mental health and career have long negative effect. The encounters comparative edison mother that uses her to the son the understanding of a variety of “ fault ” is mixed support, can feel really, the child does not become “ finally ability ” , the manner that parents gets on in these detail and processing means are very crucial. How a few small mistakes that look upon child makes inadvertently, small to these wrong parent should with why be being planted the manner handles —— the big question that this is domestic education actually. My daughter round circle serves as a common child, she often also makes the small mistake that others can make. For instance the flower buys an electronic dictionary 100 yuan several, used do not have a few days to be lost, do not know where to lose; Do scramble egg, after egg skin knock leaves, make egg juice into ash-bin directly, where should consideration chorion throw next, ability discovery made a mistake; Let her a shears replace kit, she is taking shears to circle circuit in the home, return strange ground to ask me to her shears does what. Every time this moment, I can ground of have no alternative says her “ resembles Newton same ” . Like Newton (2) ” of her “ Newton behavior often still increases chaos to me. The in residence when her junior high school, a week returns the home. Begin period of time, the thing that what there always is to need when return to school after the vacation on the weekend forgot to take, call to the home to school hind, the requirement sends. Her school leaves home far, I and her father run did not have between half climate, return so that ask for leave to the unit. Every arrive at that time, air strike strike also is in our heart, but never cross her because of this example, just state we are particularly busy, so wasteful time too regrettablly. Here enough. We understand the child is in when you call, because her neglect brings a trouble to parents,she has known, the parents below this kind of circumstance blames her again with respect to not need, if parents is blamed, gave the chance that she does not agree to meditate however apologetically however. Although she every time I and her father meet some to worry about what thing when return to school after the vacation she forgot, want us to run again, but we won’t help her clear away a thing, exhort only she is one sentence: Think well, take the thing complete. Such for some time holding to that come down, she is very few of forgetful, oneself can clear away the thing of this belt appropriate. I saw her be done technically small, like wanting the thing that do, appearance is written down, before be being faced, break up again, look have what thing to was not done. The person’s inadequacy has various. In life arrange respect, round circle is not the person with a very strong capability, this affirmation and our education is concerned, should be to monopolize inadvertently many things that ought do by herself; Concern possibly also with the person’s nature, the ability of everybody and weakness are not behaved certainly in which respect. We realized these problems, it is to be accepted as far as possible on one hand, it is to help her overcome weak sports as far as possible on the other hand. But this help is not ardently side she does this to do that. Know the parent is impossible to help her all one’s life, our “ helps ” let herself do as far as possible namely; We want to do, basically be “ has patient ” , allow her to do the business imbroglio. If what child of for fear that has to consider not, adult considered for him entirely, a bit not be born is staring at him, from long-term in light of, this is side child is busy. Everything should let him child consider, go doing, make a few mistakes more, ability learns be done well slowly. Round circle is firm go up when high school, always go anxiously in the morning, often forgot to take the key or bear watch, do oneself are very no-goly, I and her father often remind “ to take key ” , “ to wear watch ” . Spent period of time so, discovery is not a thing. She depends on us all the time remind, oneself do not think method reminds him. After I let her come back to lock up a car, hold the key immediately in satchel, want to carried satchel on the back to take the key with respect to affirmation only the following day, the conveniently after taking a door is lost go up in the desk; Watch also picks the pouch that is put in satchel in. Agreeing on her mouth, but namely often absent-minded, still be used to a key and watch conveniently to throw a desk. Once she did not take the key, go to the school to cannot lock up a bicycle, just be checked. Do not lock up a bicycle to belong to the act that violates school regulations, want to write self-criticism book, still affect the result judging actor of class. This makes round circle very sad, the affirmation in our heart also has blame to her, but did not say “ is early if reminding your ” and so on, just open a fun, like saying she resembles Newton, hard to avoid makes some of small mistake; Encourage her to press the regulation of the school, clean sanitation a few times to communal classroom, the deal out that strives for a class subtract searchs. I still write her so that be versed in the “ that rectifies carefully and nearly analyses book ” to be patted with camera, amuse her to say to begin to give ” of “ Newton doctor to collect a data from now, wait for her to become a name in the future, this is classic tale. We such manner makes a circle round become happy rise, distress for this thing no longer. The deal out that she works to lose class very quickly through be in the school later searchs, the most important is from after this, she did not forget again really bear bicycle key and watch. Like Newton (3) not be to say the parent does not criticize the child, but must criticism criticize ” means to convey with groovy “ ? Resemble cut like can feeling naturally painful, the child made a few small faults or entered disaster, need not you say he also can feel feel embarrassed, feel compunctious it is painful to mix. The parent the psychology that if disregard,reachs the child at this moment, put on a stern expression again if saying a few lessons, say a few remind words that had said already, can let him feel only lose face, feel irritated; The child the face to protect oneself, to you for expression nagging resents, may intended backchat or the appearance that make not worry at all. If the posture of such lessons and revolt often appears between the parent and child, the child can is opposite gradually really oneself mistake does not care, apathetic to the parent’s word. A lot of people are in also know the child had error to want to talk with him well at ordinary times. But when the thing that encounters arise suddenly, often conditional reflectingly gets angry to the child, “ I am early had reminded you, you return ……” unexpectedly, “ you how so not careful ……” , ham homiletic word has said, after the event regrets again, can encounter same thing next time, still cannot help sending a fire first. A few parents are forced to use “ I am bad-tempered ” will be him absolve, will balance oneself. “ bad-tempered ” is on parent body may be an indisposition only, but it gives what the child brings can be a big disastrous effect however. This meeting lets “ indisposition ” of the child become a chronic illness. Or become grumpy, self-abased and obstinate; Or it is refuse to mend one’s ways despite of repeated admonition, one fault is again wrong. The parent must realise from the heart “ of children growing need tries by accident ” . The child the experience from the derive in the life and lesson, oraler than you tell a truth 100 times impressive. “ makes a mistake ” is the child the obligatory course in growing, repair ” of class hour of quite certain “ only, he just can obtain draw inferences about other cases from one instance, ego to think over truly, the ability with perfect ego. The parent should understand the value of “ error ” , see grow in the child in, his “ error ” and “ achievement ” have same front to teach a function. The loss of the respect such as the time that reachs the parent to bring to him child as to now and then “ fault ” , economy, count the tuition that education child grows to be handed in surely, can change him grow, grow into useful timber, successful. He tears open a toy car that buys newly bad, the likelihood aroused the interest that produces a space shuttle and potential at this point; Fry paste today one boiler dish, give a cooking past master possibly tomorrow. Build correct children to watch, with period the vision that praise sees the child those “ get into trouble ” behavior, can feel they are good chance and not be evildoing. Below such mood, can your heart still have “ fire ” ? “ resembles a problem that how ” since parent understands the child like Newton, also be the problem that teachs the child with what means criticism. People often says a person to be able to talk, do not depend on what saying, depend on how saying. We can criticize the child, but must choose appropriate means criticism, in order to protect child proper pride, establish self-confident heart, education they some kind of ability is a purpose. Every is mixed to child proper pride, self-confident heart ability has damaged critical kind is bad, the parent wants complete give up to drop. “ resembles Newton the critical means of same ” , a bad thing, the thing that ought get angry is dissolved for a fun, let the child know his where is wrong already, do not damage his proper pride again, still implied the understanding to him, even under cover to him some is planted the praise and honor of ability. Such critical word, the child loves to listen quite. Even if some children are forever on trifling matters of everyday life not astute, like forever “ resembles Newton the defect of ” , as long as not be what important matter, allow him to have these trouble please. Like Newton (4) think ourselves, also have a lot of weak points likewise, can make some of small fault often. I am for instance more than the ground makes funny mistake, wear athletic clothing to go out ran, feel athletic pants has in the process that run some at odds, coming back to just discover is wear around turned over; Go bazaar retreats a dress, like entering bazaar to just discover the dress did not take these …… defect to resemble color of skin at all, grow to go up in my body, bad take out. My gentleman and child also have their “ defect ” severally, happened, we laugh, often from ridicule those our elementary mistakes resemble Newton for “ same ” . This is a fun completely in my home, won’t suffer contempt or rebuke. Some children are serious and meticulous, some child careless; Some hearts are deft, some is ham-handed; Some children are good at paying close attention to life bar as a child, expression gets know a thing or two; Also some children like to think silently, the thought does not know to fly where all the day, appearance Wan Remeng swims the condition of …… child is very different, we should allow this differentia different to exist. Be the rich sex that this differentia opposite sex made a person. A few too beg perfect father and mother special attention each detail of the child, made a few small mistakes when the child, or when some respect shows capacity of no use, they are anxiety-ridden, wanting to help the method that the child changes —— and they choose instantly is to tell the child you should be like how about why, when once the child is in,making same mistake again later, they may come with respect to meeting look displeased —— at this moment, they already became too slashing father and mother in fact. Newton if all the day because live carelessly,bar endures example, can he still be Newton? If edison is criticized severely all the day, can he still be edison? Every stems from experience or absent-minded fault, want not to involve moral issue only, need not censure or get angry, do not need to put forward even, oneself meet the child experience inconvenience and loss in this kind of process, know how to should be done later. We can tell the child our experience of life of course, but at the same time must patience waits to he is experienced and grow, should make a few opportunities intentionally let him taste a dot to him even need not the suffering of the heart. Want the child to have the state of mind of proud self-love only, have enough much experience, he of this society can learn, he of this attention can notice. To say the least, if the child’s nature brought up him,the in some way is feebleminded, so he also won’t the lesson because of the parent or remind ceaselessly and change somewhat; Can chatter ceaselessly because of yours instead, more the capacity that reduces this respect, increase at the same time self-abased. Appreciation child is not only admiring his advantage, more how look upon his defect. You see him always resemble the eye of Newtonian same ” with “ , he is met really more and more like Newton.
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The child with alimentary ancient poetry (1) by the child with alimentary ancient poetry, those who get is poetics and literary talent not just, also become the person that is shown appreciation for sb by much portion of the life and destiny actually. When round circle is very small, I begin to read a few poetry to her. I discover she loves to listen already, also love to write down. About when she is 3 years old, I learn computer to type, carry “ on the back everyday a pithy formula of etymon of 5 words ” . King Yong Mingxian gives birth to inventor of 5 input methods to make up ” of “ etymon watch so that resemble a poem same rhythm is lively, able to read aloud fluently of the sound of reading aloud. When I am carried on the back, round circle was heard by, black out to in the evening I lie when be carried on the back on the bed, some places are unable to call to mind, she can hint actually I. These do not have substantial thing, bub listens at will come, write down more quickly than me unexpectedly, I very the memory of exclaim child. Chinese character originally accumulate containing artistic beauty, mr Zhou Zunren says, chinese Chinese character has game sex, adornment sex and melodious characteristic. And Chinese classic poetry more the elite that condensed our mother tongue, wait with its peculiar rhythm sense, metrical feeling, beautiful sex idiosyncratic, sending out from beginning to end thoughout the history attractive and high temperament. In the course that I am teaching round circle to read a poem, gradually sturdy an understanding, namely children should recite poetry in great quantities, especially ancient poetry. From round circle 4, when 5 years old, I begin to teach her formally to read ancient poetry. The chrestomathy that we use the earliest is one deserves to have pictorial ” cheeper reads ancient poetry ” , in all 6, have more than 100 verses about, those poems are very short, have 4 only commonly. I often recite these ancient poetry together with her, etc learned by heart the back since another. This respect did not make a plan, do more at will, but because be done continually, go up to she is 6 years old before elementary school, these poems basically can be carried on the back. Had read a few materials in recent years, some people object teaching them to read ancient poetry in one’s childhood in the child. Think the child pays no attention to solution, it is parrot ground remembers a few syllable only, offer to should teach him to read children’s song in one’s childhood in the child so, do not carry ancient poetry on the back. My individual not quite agree with such viewpoint. Art needs to feel above all, cheeper learns ancient poetry not to weigh reasonable solution, level and oblique tones of ancient poetry word rhymes, metrical feeling is first-rate, good perception can form “ naturally to understand ” slowly. Feel classic poetic word is unfamiliar and difficult, this is the thing of adult, the child is scanty without this kind from feeling. Children’s song can teach the child a few, but cannot replace ancient poetry on amount and quality. The study time of everybody is very limited, we should teach the child best thing. What if the parent is taken out,read children’s song is relaxed and happy will teach the child to read ancient poetry, the child is to experience the difference that is less than these two kinds of characters to go up in cheerful feeling and aesthetic feeling. Additional, children period is gold period of memory, this moment reads the thing with recital, real conference is engraved into brain, inside him melt into wisdom fortune. So we should cherish the recital of childhood times more, do not let the child waste time in a few make commonplacely on. With the classic poetry that Tang Songshi word gives priority to, I feel it is worth a person to be carried on the back as a child old. People because ancient poetry “ is difficult another wrong think of a way that ” produces is, when teaching the child to learn ancient poetry, want to explain to him as far as possible, each “ interpreter ” becomes “ colloquialism ” . The fact is, learn ancient poetry to want to prevent, just be ” of “ excessive explanation. Its reason, it is the accredit that is based on pair of children perception; The 2 artistic conception beauty that are Shi Wenzhong and literal beauty are in again experience, they are beardless explanation originally, explain be pair of imagination to manacle, be pair of language beauty destroy. The child with alimentary ancient poetry (2) it is the child is 3 two years old ago, read a poem to need not explain, as long as read a poem to regard as sing, experience among them metrical feeling to go. To the child 45 years old, when knowing some of thing, add into “ to explain ” again. But this explains must simple, say the meaning of this poem briefly, explain a few terms that affect understanding at the same time went. For instance I recite “ goose in circle teaching a circle, goose, red palm of 锛